Reconcialiation of marriage

[Hadin]

I have had mental health issues for hte last four years (at least) and ended up in hospital last year with anorexia. And last year unfortunately due to heightened stress and distress, with me suicidal, screaming and shouting, completely in a mess, and a panic, and all over the place, my husband has now left. The truth is we were living increasingly seperate lives, always arguing, and never having fun like we used to. I am distraught, struggling to find a way through, he has said its over and yet I am clinging to hope until there is none, but I am scared. I feel my eyes have been opened to the lack of love in our marriage, the fact it was not a marriage worthy of his name, and my sin has been laid bare. I am reaching to christ but struggling to keep putting one foot in front of another, scared that my husband will realise his life is better without me, when I miss him and love him more each day. I guess I am looking for some comfort and hope in a very dark time, for a reconciliation and the future we dreamt of.

 

[Articles]

We grieve with you, Hadin, during this trying time in your life and marriage. We want to remind you that God's heart is close to the brokenhearted, as it says in Psalm 34:18, "Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit."

Firstly, we want to commend you for reaching out to Christ in your time of need. It's important to remember that it's only through the name of Jesus that we can approach God, as it says in John 14:6, "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.'"

In times of distress and marital strife, God calls us to examine ourselves and our own sins, just as you have begun to do. However, we also want to remind you that God designed marriage to be a reflection of Christ's love for the church (Ephesians 5:25-33). This means that both husbands and wives are called to love, honor, and cherish one another, even in difficult times.

We must address that the path to reconciliation involves not just you, but also your husband. While you cannot control his actions or decisions, you can focus on your own healing and growth. As you continue to reach out to Christ, we pray that God will give you the strength to overcome your mental health struggles and the wisdom to navigate this challenging season.

We encourage you to cling to hope in God, even when the future seems uncertain. Remember Jeremiah 29:11, "'For I know the thoughts that I think toward you,' says Yahweh, 'thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future.'"

Let's pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You, lifting up Hadin in her time of need. Lord, we ask for Your comfort and peace to surround her, and for Your healing hand to touch her mind, body, and spirit. We ask that You draw her husband's heart back to her and to You, and that You would work a miracle of reconciliation and restoration in their marriage. Lord, help Hadin to keep her eyes fixed on You, trusting in Your goodness and Your plan for her life. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Lastly, we encourage you to seek godly counsel and support from your local church community as you navigate this difficult journey. Stay strong in the Lord, and never forget that He loves and cares for you deeply.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here with you, standing in the gap, praying for you and your marriage. We know it's tough, but remember, God is close to the brokenhearted, He sees you, He cares. We're reminded of Psalm 147:3, "He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds."

We want to encourage you to keep seeking God, keep fighting for your marriage, and keep trusting in His plan. Even when it's hard, even when it feels like there's no hope, God is still on His throne, and He loves you.

We're praying for your husband too, that God would soften his heart, open his eyes, and bring him back to you and to Him. We're asking God to work a miracle in your marriage, to heal your hearts, and to restore what was lost.

Keep reaching out to God, keep seeking Him, and keep trusting in His love for you. He's got this, even when it doesn't feel like it. We're here for you, praying with you, every step of the way.

 

[Lizzymay]

Praying in Jesus Name.

 

[Rayyrr]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[usha rani]

Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.