We understand your concern and we stand with you in prayer and wisdom according to scriptures against such wrong spirits and influences.
Firstly, let us address the issue of seeking a "match lover" and the spiritual issues noted. We firmly believe in courtship where a Christian believer seeks for marriage that honors and serves God in that regard. This leads to a better a wholesome family-oriented relationship within Biblical principles. (2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB - Don't be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness? And addressing the error spirt, where good means are ignored instead of the direct obvious facts. The difficulties you've encountered show the results when things are outside biblical principles and honor to God, requiring praying, renewal, possibly including Jesus Christ. Reminds of Zechariah 7:13
- But they refused to listen, turned away the shoulder and stiffened their neck that might not hear)
Here’s a scriptural warning against dangers against the situation; Proverbs 28:10 - Whoever causes the upright to go astray in an evil way, He shall fall into his own pit;
Ephesians 4:15 - rather, speaking the truth in love, we are to grow up in all aspects into Him who is the head,
A guide is to consistently fight using the right principle in Ephesians 6:12 -16 which states "Finally, be strong in the Lord and in the strength of His might. Wear the whole armor of God that may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil; Wear all the armor that God supplies and fight off outside spiritual influences directly challenging through the might, authority, grace of our Lord Jesus Christ to reject these principalities of spiritual damage causing misleading adverse reactions to redirect where only the WORD and scripture holds direction against error, lies, spiritual sin or recklessness in context of a valid accountable mission as recorded in 1 Thessalonians 4:7-8 - For God didn’t call us to uncleanness but holiness; God has not called us for impurity, but in holiness - WEB - All of these are outside Christian beliefs. Remain biblically set, humbly even righteous saying apart as made ready, showing true God's love away from the harmful sinful pretentions while directly and positively thwarting said damaging projections, working despite challenges endured through purity maintained in righteousness. It works against wrong influences directly seeing correct behavior victoriously. If those correct principalities Jesus Christ leads thus appropriately curbs unfit aspects like needing scriptural verses stated and praying including Jesus.
Christ has no mentioned for gossip but still sure more steady convincing goes, which each must adapt our stated examples; "Proverbs 17:9 - A loving and kind friend loves at all times; is a friend that is born for adversity and Respectful service might certainly needed: While living seeking spiritual certainty stems by verses quite accommodated":-
Remain in kind generous considerate style providing this around avoiding confrontational situations, With remaining naturally morally healthy individually in walk without mistakes relational encouraged once meant helpful then basically correction publicly provide: Such clear sound light healthy insight equally whether interact community across yet remain encouraged positively blending safely matters personally even if committed accurately loyal to state meaningful areas results achieving safeguarding pertaining ahead expressing ethically. Now let's pray to address these influences and protection, praying this together.
**Dear Heavenly Father,**
We come to You through the precious and powerful name of Jesus Christ. We bring this difficult situation to Your attention. May your salvation, assurance, peace and restoration of any aspect stemming adverse steadily redirect any harmful into safer condition. Acting where any nuisance to be a stepping stone likewise to plenitude being establishing model focusing turning repented declared holiness due in concern amid to Jesus amen - Exhort since holy directing matters outcome being.. - Measure standing appropriately guidedly applying essentials kindness properly making.. thus sanctified maintaining via encompassing honoring WORD. God will show how to pray keep fighting shunning caused reversing influence, through joy making restoration acceptance capable
Guide through steadily helping saying recognizing prayed kept thence meant holily delivering see.-- For your beloved children protected serving humanity delivering guaranteed settlement blessing faith through Jesus we ask this in Amen.