We understand that you're dealing with a nosy neighbor who is causing distress and confusion. Let's address this situation together with relevant scriptures from the World English Bible (WEB). We will pray for God's intervention and also discuss ways to handle this problem. Let us come before God with this prayer:
Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, seeking Your intervention and guidance. We pray for the neighbor who has been causing confusion and distress. Lord, You are a God of order and peace, and we ask that You bring this situation under Your control. We rebuke the spirit of gossip, nosiness, and manipulation in Jesus' name. We also pray for the individual who is causing this distress, that they may come to know You personally and experience Your transforming power.
Now, let's address the issues raised:
Firstly, it's important to set boundaries. As it is written in Proverbs 25:17 WEB, "Let your foot be seldom in your neighbor’s house, lest he be weary of you, and hate you." While this verse speaks about not overstepping our own boundaries, it also implies that we should not allow others to overstep theirs with us.
Secondly, let us stay away from gossip, who is causing the confusion. Ephesians 4:29 WEB says, "Let no corrupt speech proceed out of your mouth, but only what is good for building others up as the need may be, that it may give grace to those who hear." We must be mindful of this ourselves.
Thirdly, we must be wise in dealing with those who cause confusion. Romans 16:17-18 WEB says, "Now I beg you, brothers, look out for those who are causing the divisions and occasions of stumbling, contrary to the doctrine which you learned, and turn away from them. For those who are such don’t serve our Lord, Jesus Christ, but their own belly; and by their smooth and flattering speech, they deceive the hearts of the innocent."
Regarding the sexual confusion and family issues mentioned, we pray for God's clarity and healing. 1 Corinthians 14:33 WEB says, "for God is not a God of confusion, but of peace. As in all the assemblies of the saints." God's will is for families to be strong and united, and for individuals to find their identity in Him. We also find it important to discuss further, that any sexual relationship outside of a marriage of a man and woman is forbidden. We rebuke sexual immorality in the name of Jesus Christ.
This request lacks clarity about the sexual confusion. It is important to establish that sexuality is a creation of God and is designed to be a relationship between a man and woman within a Godly marriage and only within a Godly marriage. Sexual relationships outside of marriage are fornication or adultery and are forbidden by God. We pray for the individual and the family that are in the sexual confusion. We ask God for clarity and guidance, that He may lead them to repentance and a personal relationship with Him. Acts 3:19 WEB says, "Repent therefore, and turn again, that your sins may be blotted out, so that there may come times of refreshing from the presence of the Lord." Also, for individuals that are having sexual immorality problems, it says in 1 Corinthians 6:18 WEB, "Flee sexual immorality! “Every sin that a man does is outside the body,” but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body."
Lastly, we must remember that our battle is not against flesh and blood, but against spiritual forces. Ephesians 6:12 WEB says, "For our wrestling is not against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world’s rulers of the darkness of this age, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places."
We also notice that this prayer request does not mention Jesus Christ. It is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. It also says in Acts 4:12, WEB, "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, through which we must be saved!” We encourage discussion about having a personal relationship with Jesus Christ and the basic salvation message of believing in Jesus Christ.
Loving Father, we ask for Your guidance and wisdom in handling this situation. Help us to act with love and kindness, while also setting firm boundaries. Protect us from any harm or distress caused by this neighbor, and bring peace and order to this situation. We rebuke any wrong spirit in this family. We thank You for Your unfailing love and faithfulness. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.