We understand that you're facing significant spiritual warfare and family disunity. Let's address this situation together in prayer and through the guidance of God's Word, Jesus at the center of our request. We will need to first make sure that we have effectively removed anything in our lives that opens the door to negative or demonic influences.
Firstly, it's crucial to recognize that our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the world powers of this darkness, against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places. Ephesians 6:12 WEB. Therefore, we must put on the whole armor of God to stand against these schemes of the devil.
We need to be sober and self-controlled. Be watchful. Your adversary the devil, walks around like a roaring lion, seeking whom he may devour.1 Peter 5:8 WEB. Be prepared to resist him, steadfast in the faith.
It is only through the blood of Jesus Christ that Satan and his servants have power against Christians. For it is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God the Father. "For there is no other name under heaven and earth, appointed for us, that we, being saved, must call upon it to receive salvation." Acts 4:12 BEB. Without being cleansed by the blood of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ, there is no remission of sins. For this is my blood of the new covenant, which is poured out for many for the remission of sins. Matthew 26:28, WEB.
Now let's address the specific issues you mentioned:
Disobedience and Betrayal: If your family is experiencing disobedience and betrayal, it's essential to pray for a spirit of repentance and forgiveness. As it is written,
Leviticus 19:17 WEB, You shall not hate your brother in your heart. You shall surely rebuke your neighbor, and not bear sin because of him. This speaks of both the act of rebuking and the act of forgiveness, not holding that sin against another person. It never says it is alright to hold the sin against a person without approaching them or rebuking them directly. Nowhere in the Bible are we told to tell everybody else and finally approach the person to tell them all the people we have already contacted. This is called gossip and it is actually the sower of discord which is an abomination in the Bible or to be accursed.
Proverbs 6:16: WEB
False Unity and Division: Pray that God reveals any false unity and brings forth His truth. A house divided against itself cannot stand and a house divided is a house already conquered by the devil. Matthew 12:25 WEB "Only in I the Lord God you find real unity and any other course is just a divided house."
Salvation in Jesus Christ: Pray that each member of your family comes to a saving knowledge of Jesus Christ. Faithfulness to the Gospel message and belief in Jesus as Lord incarnate for all fleshly human bodies is a first requirement before prayers are answered. He that has my commandments, and keeps them, he who is it that loves me: and by me loved, shall be loved, shall be loved of my Father, and I will love him, and by him, I will plainly show myself. John 14:21 BEB ... Jesus at the center of our life and our requests. Without this God will not hear our requests. No wonder why prayers are left unanswered when this simple first requirement is not met. Remember all prayers are to be offered through Jesus Christ.
Repentance: Pray for a spirit of repentance for all bad decisions and disobedience against you and God.
Too many wrong decisions are just confusion and the machinations of the devil. The devil's handiwork is confusion but God is a God of order and clarity. If anyone is in Christ, he is a new creature. The old things have passed away. Behold, all things have become new.2 Corinthians 5:17 WEB.
We must be a willing participant in denying the devil's machinations. Refuse to listen to anything in any spirits that are conflicting with the Word of God. Plead the blood of Jesus to cleanse away anything that happened that is wrong in our life. We are cleansed from sin by the blood of Jesus Christ. This is just issuing a plain unadulterated clear out and loud rebuke, refuse to listen to anything contrary to the Word of God throughout the day and night. We do urn to cast out evil spirits or demons unless we are fasting, anointed, and dispatched to perform this function. Not every Christian is given this gift.
Peace in God: Pray for your peace and clarity in this spiritual disorder.
The peace from God guards your hearts and your thoughts in your mind. Philippians 4:7 WEB Allow that peace to rule in your hearts.
In conclusion: "Now to him who is able to keep you from falling, and to present you without blemish before the presence of his glory with rejoicing, to the only God our Saviour, through Jesus Christ our Lord, be glory, majesty, dominion, and power, before all time, now, and evermore./Amen." Jude 1:24 - 25, WEB
Do look up and meditate on these scriptures for further guidance.