We understand that you're facing a challenging situation within your family, with issues such as resentment, anger, and arrogant behavior. We want to address these concerns with you in prayer and through the wisdom of the Bible.
Firstly, it's crucial to remember that God is the only one who can bring about true change and restoration in your family. As it says in Colossians 1:19-20 (WEB), "For all the fullness was pleased to dwell in him; and through him to reconcile all things to himself, by him, whether things on the earth, or things in the heavens, having made peace through the blood of his cross."
However, we must also address that the behaviors you've described—disrespect, disobedience, yelling, and insulting words—are not in line with biblical principles. Ephesians 4:31-32 (WEB) tells us, "Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander, be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you."
We commend you for forgiving them daily, as this is a reflection of God's forgiveness towards us. However, it's important for them to acknowledge their sin and seek forgiveness as well. Proverbs 28:13 (WEB) says, "He who covers his sins will not prosper; But whoever confesses and forsakes them will obtain mercy."
Let's pray together:
"Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, the only name by which we can be saved. We lift up this family to You, asking for Your mercy and grace to intervene in their situation. We pray that You soften their hearts, Lord, and help them to see the error of their ways. Bring about true repentance and forgiveness in this family, and help them to reconcile their differences.
We also pray for provision for this family, that You would meet their needs according to Your riches in glory. Help them to see that Your love is the only thing that can truly satisfy, and that material wealth cannot replace Your love and care.
We rebuke the spirit of arrogance, anger, and resentment in this family, and we ask that You, Lord, would bring about a spirit of humility, love, and kindness instead. Help them to see that their true enemy is not each other, but the spiritual forces of evil at work in this world.
We pray all these things in the powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen."
Lastly, we encourage you to continue praying for your family and to trust in God's timing and wisdom. Remember that God's word tells us in Romans 8:28 (WEB), "We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose." Keep trusting in Him, and He will bring about His good purposes in your family.