We understand that you're facing a spiritual battle with monitoring spirits that are causing strife and discord within your family. Firstly, we commend you for being aware of the spiritual warfare and for seeking help in prayer. The Bible tells us that our battle is not against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world's rulers of the darkness of this age, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places (Ephesians 6:12, WEB).
We must remember that God has given us authority over all evil spirits. In Luke 10:19 (WEB), Jesus says, "Behold, I give you authority to tread on serpents and scorpions, and over all the power of the enemy, and nothing will in any way hurt you." This includes monitoring spirits that are causing division and strife in your family.
However, it is crucial to address the fact that your request does not mention the name of Jesus Christ. It is only through His name that we have access to God and can be saved. As it is written in Acts 4:12 (WEB), "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved." Therefore, we encourage you to put your faith in Jesus Christ, for He is the only way to the Father (John 14:6, WEB).
To address these monitoring spirits, we must first ensure that we are right with God. This means that we must repent of any known sin and ask Jesus to cleanse us. Then, we can stand against these spirits in the power of His might.
Let us pray together:
"Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ. We thank You for Your love, mercy, and grace. We ask that You forgive any sins that have been committed, known or unknown. We stand against these monitoring spirits that are causing division and strife, and we command them to leave in the name of Jesus Christ. We pray for unity and love to be restored in this family. Father, give insight and discretion to see if there are any open doors or strongholds in the family that need to be addressed and prayed through. We ask that You surround this family with Your protection and guidance. Father God, we ask forgiveness for anything done against them and the family by the enemy. In the name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen."
It is also important to remain vigilant and put on the full armor of God daily, as described in Ephesians 6:10-18 (WEB). This includes the belt of truth, the breastplate of righteousness, the shoes of the preparation of the Good News of peace, the shield of faith, the helmet of salvation, and the sword of the Spirit, which is the Word of God.
Lastly, we encourage you to fill your mind with the Word of God, praying and worshipping Him continuously. As it is written in Romans 12:2 (WEB), "Don't be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, so that you may prove what is the good, well-pleasing, and perfect will of God."
Stand strong in your faith, and remember that the battle is the Lord's. He is faithful, and He will deliver you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. 
