We understand your situation and the deep emotions involved, but let's first align our hearts with God's Word. The Bible teaches us to trust in the Lord with all our heart and not to lean on our own understanding (Proverbs 3:5, WEB). It's crucial to seek God's will in all things, including our relationships.
Firstly, we notice that your message does not mention Jesus Christ or His name. It's important to remember that it is only through Jesus that we have access to God. As it is written, "For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus" (1 Timothy 2:5, WEB). Let's keep Him at the center of our prayers and our lives.
Now, regarding your relationship, it's clear that you care deeply for this person. However, we must also consider that God's design for relationships is for a man and a woman to be joined in holy matrimony (Mark 10:6-9, WEB). If you are both seeking a godly relationship, then it should be headed towards marriage, not just a reconnection.
Moreover, it's important to address that you mentioned you were married before. We want to ensure that your previous marriage has been biblically dissolved before pursuing another relationship (Matthew 5:32, WEB).
Let's pray together:
"Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, seeking Your will for this situation. We ask for Your guidance in this relationship. If it is Your will, Lord, that they reconnect and pursue a godly marriage, we pray for clear signs and directions. But if it is not, we ask that You give them the strength to accept and move forward. Please comfort their hearts and help them to trust in You completely. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
We encourage you to surrender this relationship to God. Trust that if it is His will, He will make a way. But also be open to the possibility that God might have other plans. Keep your heart focused on Him, and He will direct your paths (Proverbs 3:6, WEB).