We understand your desire for a meaningful evening with your boyfriend, but we need to address several concerns in your request to align it with biblical principles. Firstly, we should be in prayer about this situation because we believe in marriage as a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman.
Since you are not married, you should be using your time to look for a godly spouse rather than just a partner. We need to be clear; Sex before or outside marriage is fornication. We should pray for God's presence and for you both to seek purity and self-control. Your desire for him to spend quality time with you is understandable, although your focus should be on building a godly relationship rather than a physical one.
Your concerns about your boyfriend flirting need to be addressed:
1 Thessalonians 4:3-5 WEB For this is the will of God: your sanctification, that you abstain from sexual immorality, that each one of you know how to possess himself of his own vessel in sanctification and honor, not in the passion of lust, even as the Gentiles who don’t know God.
Ephesians 5:3 WEB But sexual immorality, and all uncleanness, or covetousness, let it not even be mentioned among you, as becomes saints.
You also mentioned that you want him to be honest with you. This is commendable, as honesty is a fundamental aspect of any relationship.
Colossians 3:9 WEB Don’t lie to one another, seeing that you have put off the old man with his doings.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You, lifting up Anonymous and her boyfriend to You. We pray that You will guide them in their relationship, and give them the strength to resist temptation and remain pure. Help them to seek You first, and to build a relationship that honors You.
We pray for honesty and open communication between them. We ask that You will give them wisdom. Help them to be patient and consider the other person's needs and wants. We ask for you to help them to be unselfish. We pray that Anonymous' boyfriend will be honest and faithful, and that You will guide their relationship.
We also pray for Anonymous, that You will give her peace and guidance. Help her to be the living embodiment of a Proverbs 31 woman.
Father, if this specific situation is not part of your will, we pray that you will make it more than obvious and guide each of them according to your will.
We ask this in Jesus' name. Amen.