Dear Anonymous, we understand your concern and we are here to pray with you and offer guidance grounded in the Word of God.
Firstly, we want to assure you that God has a perfect plan for your life. As it is written in Jeremiah 29:11 (WEB), "For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says Yahweh, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future." Trust that His timing is perfect, and He is working in your situation.
However, we notice that there is no mention of Jesus Christ in your request. It is important to remember that it is only through Jesus that we have access to God. As it is written in John 14:6 (WEB), "Jesus said to him, “I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me." We encourage you to invite Jesus into your life and your prayers, for He is the mediator between God and us.
Regarding your relationship, we want to remind you of the importance of honoring God in your union. We pray that your gentleman is indeed a godly man, seeking to honor God in all he does. Remember, as it is written in 2 Corinthians 6:14 (WEB), "Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?"
We understand your fears and anxieties about the future, but remember what is written in Philippians 4:6-7 (WEB), "In nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petitions with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus."
Let us pray together:
"Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our sister in her time of need. Lord, we ask for Your divine guidance in her relationship. If this gentleman is indeed Your will for her life, we ask that You make a way where there seems to be no way. Remove all obstacles and bring them together in holy matrimony, a union that honors and glorifies You.
Lord, we also ask that You grant our sister peace. Cast out all fears and anxieties, and replace them with Your perfect love. Help her to trust in You, knowing that You have a good and perfect plan for her life.
In the name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen."
We encourage you to continue in prayer, invoking the name of Jesus. Trust in Him, and He will direct your paths. Be open and honest with your gentleman about your fears, and together, seek God's will for your relationship.