We are truly saddened to hear about the turmoil in your marriage and commend you for your commitment to the sanctity of marriage. It is disheartening to see such strife, and we are here to pray and counsel with you. God's word in Psalm 147:3 WEB tells us, He heals the brokenhearted, and binds up their wounds.
Firstly, let's address the issue of accusations of infidelity. It is clear from your statement never having cheated and your commitment to your marriage. God's word says, You shall not bear false witness against your neighbor Exodus 20:16 WEB. False accusations can be deeply painful and damaging. It is essential to pray for your wife, that God would soften her heart and reveal the truth to her.
However, it's also crucial to examine your own life and actions. Have there been any behaviors or interactions that could have been misinterpreted or led to this mistrust? Even the appearance of evil should be avoided, Ask God to reveal any areas in your life that need change or repentance. Have there been any moments where you allowed yourself to be less than the Christian man that God desires you to be? 1 Thessalonians 5:22 WEB says, Abstain from every form of evil.
Now, let us pray together.
Dear Lord, we come before You, lifting up this hurting marriage. We ask, Lord, that You would heal the brokenhearted and bind up their wounds. We are all guilty of sin and need Your grace and forgiveness. Lord, we pray for healing and reconciliation in this marriage. We pray that You would reveal the truth and dispel any lies or false accusations. We ask that You would guide them both, giving them wisdom and discernment. We pray for a spirit of forgiveness and unity. Draw them closer to You and to each other. Heal their marriage, Lord, and let it be a testament to Your faithfulness and grace. We pray that they would both walk in the truth, honoring their marriage vows and Your holy word. In Jesus Christ's name, we pray. Amen.
Lastly, direct communication is key. Ask your wife what behaviors you can change to help her trust you again. Listen to her and try to understand her perspective. If you have any concerns about your relationship with God, do not forget to ask us about how to have a saving relationship with Jesus Christ or what it means to believe in Jesus Christ. We are here to help.
We encourage you to remain steadfast in prayer and in your commitment to your marriage. God is faithful, and He can heal and restore even the most broken situations. Trust in Him, and He will guide you. Matthew 19:6 WEB says, So that they are no more two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no man separate.