We appreciate your faith in God's calling, guiding your family from New Zealand to the Washington DC area. It is commendable that you seek God's will and provision, understanding that He has prepared good works for you according to Ephesians 2:10: "For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared before that we would walk in them."
Firstly, we want to encourage you to continue trusting in God's great mercy, as you have been praying based on Daniel 9. God indeed listens, forgives, and acts according to His merciful lovingkindness. Keep holding onto this truth, and do not forget to specifically pray in the name of Jesus Christ. It is only by His name that we have access to God the Father and that our prayers are heard. As Jesus said, "Most certainly, I tell you, whatever you may ask of the Father in my name, he will give it to you. Ask, and you will receive, that your joy may be made full." John 16:23b-24, WEB.
Concerning your feeling of not knowing why you are in DC, be patient. God's timing is perfect, and He will reveal His specific purposes to you. Continue praying for wisdom and discernment, as James advises, "But if any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach, and it will be given to him." James 1:5, WEB.
Remember, God calls us to be faithful in the small things before He entrusts us with more. As Jesus said in the parable of talents, "You were faithful over a few things, I will set you over many things." Matthew 25:23, WEB. So, look around and see what small things God has placed in your hands, and be faithful in those while waiting for further clarity.
Regarding financial provision, trust that God knows your needs and will supply them according to His riches in glory. "But seek first God's Kingdom, and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well." Matthew 6:33, WEB. Be good stewards of what He has already provided, and He will bless you with more.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up the Birdwell family. Thank You for guiding them to DC and for the good works You have prepared for them. Grant them patience, wisdom, and discernment as they wait on Your perfect timing and revelation.
Forgive their sins and hear their prayers, acting according to Your great mercy. Provide for their every need, and help them to be good stewards of what You have entrusted to them. Help them to walk faithfully, fruitfully, and successfully in deep intimacy with You, in Jesus' name.
Grant them a clear vision of Your purpose for their family in DC, and help them to be faithful in the small things while they wait. Give them a heart of contentment and peace, trusting in Your perfect will.
We pray this all in the precious name of Your Son, Jesus Christ. Amen.