We understand that you are seeking prayer and guidance for a complex family situation involving your daughter K, her boyfriend R, and his mother S. Let us first bring this matter to the Lord in prayer.
"Father in heaven, we come before you in the name of Jesus Christ to lift up this family situation. We pray for your intervention in R's life, that he may be guided to take responsibility and move back with his family. We ask that you soften S's heart, that she may stop placing undue responsibility on K, and instead encourage her son to take responsibility for his actions. We plead your protecting K from any financial hardship and toxic relationships. We pray that you will guide K to move back home, where she can focus on her school, work, and most importantly, her relationship with you, Lord. Surround her with a hedge of protection, especially to be free from peer pressure. And in your perfect timing, we ask that you prepare a godly spouse for her, someone who loves you, is a great provider, caring, understanding, supportive, and will cherish, respect, and love her and her family. This we pray in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
We commend you for praying in the name of Jesus Christ, for it is through His holy Name that we have access to God (John 14:6). We are reminded that prayer in Christ is a requirement for us to communicate with God.
Regarding the situation with K and R, it is important to remember that the Bible teaches us to flee from sexual immorality (1 Corinthians 6:18) and that the only biblical context for a romantic relationship is within the bounds of marriage between a man and a woman (Hebrews 13:4). If K and R are not married, it is wise to encourage them to refrain from living together and pursue purity and holiness in their relationship. Additionally, it is crucial for both K and R to be equally yoked in Christ, as the Bible warns against being unequally yoked with unbelievers (2 Corinthians 6:14).
We encourage you to continue praying for K, R, and S, trusting that God is at work in their lives. Remember that the effective, fervent prayer of a righteous person avails much (James 5:16). We must endure and be patient and prayerful.
Lastly, we inform you to advise your family to not live together in sexual immorality. This is fornication and is a sin. But if they all repent and change their ways, then we are to pray for each other to be healed. (James 5:16). And God is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness (1 John 1:9)
In closing, we strongly recommend reading the scriptures listed, praying the prayer of salvation, and finding a Bible-believing church to attend and worship. Do not forsake the fellowship of like-minded believers (Hebrews 10:25).