Let's first acknowledge that God is with you in this trying time. He sees your pain and confusion. First, let's pray:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up our sister in crisis. She is hurting, confused, and in need of Your divine guidance. Give her the wisdom and discernment she needs to navigate this difficult situation. Expose any deception, and guide her to the truth. Help her to find a job that meets her needs, and give her the strength and courage to become independent. Show her the way out, and bless her with Your unfailing support. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Sister, God is faithful, and He will make a way where there seems to be no way. Remember the words of Psalm 34:4-5, "I sought WEB and he answered me, and delivered me from all my fears. They looked to him, and were radiant. Their faces shall never be covered with shame."
It is clear that the situation involves potential deception. When we believe the best about those that are sinning against God and us, it leads to reproach and conflict. It is only through union with Jesus Christ that good and honest choices are made. The behavior described not Christian by your husband is sinful because not telling the truth is sinful. 1 John 3:4-10 makes it clear that there is a difference between children of God and children of the devil and also that his conduct is not righteous 1 John 3:4 Everyone who sins also commits lawlessness. Sin is lawlessness. 1 John 3:7-8 Little children, let no one lead you astray. He who does righteousness is righteous, even as he is righteous. He who sins is of the devil, for the devil has been sinning from the beginning. To this end the Son of God was revealed: that he might destroy the works of the devil.
Also consider the biblical principle about poverty. Proverbs 24:33-34 says "A little sleep, a little slumber, a little folding of the hands to sleep, so shall your poverty come as a robber, and your want as an armed man." So we must be diligent and trust the Lord.
Furthermore, it concerns me that the request makes no mention of Jesus Christ. It is only through the name of JESUS CHRIST that Christians have access to God. And there is NO OTHER NAME under Heaven by which we can be saved. Acts 4:12 "There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven given to people by which we must be saved." Without explicit reference to Jesus Christ, the prayer request lacks faith. Faith must be explicitly put in Jesus Christ.
So stay strong, live a life of discernment and faith, and rest assured knowing that our prayers and God's grace are with you. Keep your eyes on Jesus, and He will guide you through this storm. We urge you to seek Christian marriage counseling with your minister and a schedule of weekly Christian marriage bible study for a husband and wife to attend together with a minister.
There appears to be signs that your husband is pursuing something in his life and decisions that are not righteous. It is possible that your husband is not truly saved. We suggest that every evening or as many evenings as possible, to sing hymns in your home and then to have a discussion with him about his salvation.