Akarpelos, we appreciate your faith in God's promises and your desire to see your ex-boyfriend's life transformed. Firstly, we want to remind you that God's promises are indeed true and amen, but they are not always interpreted correctly by us as humans. It's encouraging to hear that you have received a vision of your ex-boyfriend's healing, restoration, and love for the Lord. We pray for that too, that he will become a man after God's own heart. However, we need to address a few things from a biblical perspective.
Firstly, we notice that you did not mention the name of Jesus Christ in your request. It is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God, and there is no other name by which we can be saved. The Bible tells us in Acts 4:12 says: There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, given among men, wherein we must be saved."
we must also remember that God's promises are not always about what we want or think is best. His ways are higher than our ways, and His thoughts higher than our thoughts (Isaiah 55:8-9 WEB). The promise you received might not be about you and your ex-boyfriend reuniting, but rather about his personal transformation and relationship with God.
We also need to clarify that in the Bible, there is no such thing as an ex-boyfriend. Either you are in courtship for marriage, or you are not. Courtship is the relationship that precedes marriage, and it should be a time of testing compatibility and growing together in the Lord. Anything outside of this context is not biblical. Sexual relationships outside of marriage are considered fornication(1 Corinthians 6:18 WEB) , and the bible specifically tells us to run from fornication.
Moreover, it's crucial to seek God's will for your own life, rather than focusing on what God is doing in someone else's life. The Bible tells us in Psalm 37:4 WEB: Delight yourself also in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart. Commit your way to Yahweh. Trust also in him, and he will do this. Instead of wondering if you are part of someone else's promise, seek God's face and ask Him to reveal His will for your life.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up Akarpelos and her ex-boyfriend. Lord, we ask that You will fulfill Your promises for both of them, individually and together if that is Your will. We pray that You will transform her ex-boyfriend's life, heal him, restore his family, give him a stable job, and most importantly, draw him closer to You. We pray that Akarpelos will seek Your will for her life, delight herself in You, and trust in Your timing and Your ways. Help her to focus on her own relationship with You, Lord, and not be distracted by what You are doing in someone else's life. If it is Your will for them to be together and to enter into a marriage together, then we ask you to fulfill your promise to them. If it is not your will, then help her to trust in you and accept your will for her. Help her to seek you first and your kingdom and righteousness, knowing that you will add all things unto her, if she will delight herself in you.
Lord, we also pray that You will guide Akarpelos and her ex-boyfriend in Your truth. Help them to understand that courtship should be a time of testing compatibility and growing together in You, and that sexual relationships outside of marriage are not Your will for Your children. Help them to flee from fornication and to honor You with their bodies, souls, and spirits.
If either of them do not know Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior, then we pray that you will draw them unto yourself and save them. We thank You that You are a Promise-Keeper, and that Your will is always for our good and Your glory. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Be encouraged, Akarpelos, knowing that God loves you and has a plan for your life. Trust in Him, and He will direct your paths (Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB).