Let us come together in prayer and counsel, seeking God's will for you in this situation.
Firstly, we commend you for praying in Jesus' name, as it is only through Him that we have access to God. As it is written in John 14:6 WEB: "Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me." And in Acts 4:12 WEB: "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"
Now, let us address the issues you've presented. You mentioned an incident with ###, and we need to consider this carefully. It is important to remember that God desires truth and honesty in all our interactions. As it says in Ephesians 4:25 WEB: "Therefore, putting away falsehood, speak truth each one with his neighbor, for we are members one of another." We pray that ### will be guided by this principle, and that you will also seek the truth in this matter.
Regarding your health and the well-being of ###, ###, and ###, we stand with you in prayer. God is our healer and our strength. As it is written in Psalm 103:2-3 WEB: "Bless Yahweh, my soul, and do not forget all his benefits; who forgives all your sins; who heals all your diseases." We trust in His power to heal your headaches, joint pains, and any other ailments affecting you and your loved ones.
However, we must also remind you that spiritual health is equally important. Ensure that your relationships align with biblical principles. If ### is merely a boyfriend, we encourage you to consider this as a courtship that should ultimately lead to a godly marriage, abstaining from fornication as it is mentioned in many places in the scripture. If this does not apply, please forgive us for addressing this as it is a concern in our culture. We pray that God will guide you both in His wisdom.
Let us pray together:
Dear Lord, we come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up our brother/sister in need. We pray for healing—both physical and emotional. Touch their bodies and relieve them of headaches and joint pains. Extend Your healing hand to ###, ###, and ### as well. Guide them all through the day, granting them productivity and good health.
We also bring before You the situation with ###. We pray for honesty and truth to prevail. Guide them both with Your wisdom, and help them to honor Your principles in their relationship.
Grant our brother/sister the strength to carry on through the week. Protect them from all harm and inequity. Set them free from this sickness and restore their health fully.
We thank You, Lord, for Your unfailing love and mercy. We claim Your promises of healing and restoration. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Be encouraged and stand firm in your faith. Trust that God is working in your life and in the lives of those you care about. Remember the words of Romans 8:28 WEB: "We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose."
Let's remember compassion in tough times. "Mourn with those who mourn" (Rom 12:15). Sometimes, silent presence & listening are best. "Be quick to listen, slow to speak" (James 1:19). Trust God's comfort & timing. "The LORD is close to the brokenhearted" (Ps 34:18). In Jesus' name! 
