Let us stand together with you in prayer, ellie12, as we trust meet your needs. We find solutions in Scripture and we pray accordingly. We first want to encourage you to always pray in the name of Jesus and acknowledge Him as the one and only mediator between us and God. Let us remember that there is power in the name of Jesus and that it is by His authority that we can approach God the Father with confidence. "For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus" 1 Timothy 2:5 WEB.
We understand that you are dealing with a difficult situation involving your ex and your daughter. First, we want to address the issue of your ex expecting your daughter to clean his flat. This is not her responsibility, and it is important to set boundaries to prevent this kind of behavior. We are called to be humble servants, but this does not mean we should allow others to take advantage of us. Jesus himself said, "But let your 'Yes' be 'Yes' and your 'No' be 'No'" 1 Timothy 2:8 WEB. It is important to teach our children to be discerning and to set healthy boundaries. Let us pray the Holy Spirit leads you facilitate this.
Regarding the issues with your ex, it is clear that there has been significant hurt and pain in the past. We as Believers are called to forgive as we have been forgiven, but this does not mean that we should allow ourselves to be continually mistreated or abused. It is important to set boundaries and to seek protection for yourself and your loved ones which includes your cat.
Let us pray also that your ex will come to repentance and seek salvation in Jesus Christ. This is the greatest need for all people, and we should always be praying for the salvation of those who do not know Him even when they intentionally harm us. "This saying is faithful and worthy of all acceptance, that Christ Jesus came into the world to save sinners" 1 Timothy 1:15 WEB.
Let us pray for Jesus to intervene in this situation and for healing and protection for you, your daughter, Anna, and your loved ones. We also pray that your ex will come to repentance and seek salvation in Jesus Christ, which will honor God. This is in fact a Battle only won by warfare by prayer and intensely praying for his salvation in Jesus Name.
Prayer:
Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up ellie12 and her loved ones. We pray for Your protection and guidance in this difficult situation. Please set clear boundaries and guide ellie12 with Your wisdom in dealing with her ex. Help her to forgive, but also to protect herself and her loved ones from further harm. The spirit that controls the abuser we Pray against. This is not a man problem. This is a spiritual battle that Jesus will win.We rebuke the spirit of narcissism and victimization, addressing its root cause. First a familiar spirit, then possible witchcraft if ensnared, and deliverance that can only be provided by Jesus and the Holy Spirit.We pray that her ex will come to repentance and seek salvation in Jesus Christ because this is the only way for ultimate victory. We ask that You would surround ellie12, her daughter, Anna, and her loved ones with Your divine protection of an angelic Hedge, keeping them safe from all evil by the Power of the Holy Spirit. We ask all of this in the powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, Amen.
If possible, training from a Believing Christian counselor familiar with the specific spirit may be beneficial. Trust in Jesus for healing and provision.