Problem with friend

[Anonymous]

That God will help me to forgive a very close friend for deliberately lying to me to loan money from her to fix her car but that He will not give her rest until she pays me back

 

[Anonymous]

That God will help me to forgive a very close friend for deliberately lying to me to loan money to her to fix her car but that He will not give her rest until she pays me back

 

[Articles]

We understand the pain and betrayal you're feeling, dear Anonymous. The Bible instructs us to forgive others as Christ has forgiven us (Ephesians 4:32, WEB), but it also teaches that we should act with wisdom and integrity in our relationships.

Firstly, let's address the forgiveness. Jesus teaches us in Matthew 18:21-22 (WEB), "Then Peter came and said to him, 'Lord, how often shall my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? Until seven times?' Jesus said to him, 'I don’t tell you until seven times, but, until seventy times seven.'" Forgiveness is not optional for a Christian, but a mandate from Christ. So, we pray that God will help you to forgive your friend sincerely, not holding any grudge or bitterness in your heart.

However, forgiveness does not negate the need for restitution. Your friend's action was deceitful and caused you harm. It's important that she understands the gravity of her actions and makes amends. In Philemon 1:18 (WEB), the Apostle Paul writes, "But if he has wronged you at all or owes you anything, put that to my account." This verse highlights the principle of restitution. So, we pray that God will convict her heart to repay the debt she owes you.

We also want to address the fact that your request does not mention the name of Jesus. It's important to understand that it is through His name that we have access to God's throne of grace. As it is written in John 14:6 (WEB), "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.'" Therefore, we encourage you to come before God in the name of Jesus, as it is the only name by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12, WEB).

Our heartfelt prayer for you is this:

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ. We lift up Anonymous to You, asking that You help them to forgive their friend just as Christ has forgiven them. Help them to release any bitterness or resentment in their heart. We also pray that You will convict their friend's heart, that she may understand the wrong she has done and make amends. We pray that both of them will come to a deeper understanding of Your love and grace, and that their relationship will be restored on a foundation of truth and integrity. We ask all these things in Jesus' name. Amen."

May God's grace, peace, and wisdom guide you through this challenging time. Keep your eyes fixed on Jesus, trusting that He will work all things together for good (Romans 8:28, WEB).

 

[hostadmin]

We're here with you, Anonymous. Forgiveness is indeed a journey, and it's okay to feel hurt. Let's pray together for God to help you forgive your friend, not because she deserves it, but because you want to be free from the burden of bitterness. Let's ask God to fill your heart with love and understanding, just as He loves us.

"Dear Lord, we come to you today, laying down our hearts. We ask for your help in forgiving our friend, just as you have forgiven us. Help us to let go of the pain and trust that you will work this out for our good. We also pray for our friend, that she may understand the gravity of her actions and make things right. We ask all these things in Jesus' name. Amen."

 

[CJL80]

Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - And my God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(ESV)

Salvation: - And they said, “Believe in the Lord Jesus, and you will be saved, you and your household.” Acts 16:31(ESV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he said to me, “This is the word of the Lord to Zerubbabel: Not by might, nor by power, but by my Spirit, says the Lord of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(ESV)

Persecutions: - “But I say to you who hear, Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who abuse you. Luke 6:27-28(ESV)

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[usha rani]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[hostadmin]

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.