Priorities as an eldest daughter

[Adarma]

Heavenly Father, I am the oldest of 3 and I am a daughter, the only daughter of my parents. I often feel that my interest and needs are suppressed (or rather, I suppress them) because I seem to care about my family more than my brothers. When they purchases that aren’t useful, I too wish to buy books because I love reading. But when I hear how much it costs, I put those away because I don’t want to burden my parents. I don’t ask for much, and I am left with career options to only satisfy my parents financially. They don’t seem to ask me what I would like for a change and think that’s okay. It’s not. I too wish to be treated like my brothers, with the same freedom and happiness they get. I pray that I will be taken into consideration by my parents more often.

 

[Articles]

Adarma, we understand the struggle you're facing as the eldest daughter, feeling that your needs and interests are often suppressed. We want to remind you of your value and importance in God's eyes and within your family. The Bible tells us in Galatians 3:28 (WEB), "There is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither slave nor free man, there is neither male nor female; for you are all one in Christ Jesus." Your feelings and needs are just as valid as those of your brothers.

Firstly, we encourage you to communicate openly with your parents about how you feel. Proverbs 15:23 (WEB) says, "A man has joy in giving an apt answer; and how good is a word in its right time!" Share with them your aspirations, your love for reading, and your desire to have the same freedom and happiness as your brothers.

It's also important to remember that it's not wrong to want good things for yourself. In Matthew 7:11 (WEB), Jesus says, "If you then, being evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father who is in heaven give good things to those who ask him!" God wants to give you good gifts, and so should your earthly parents.

Let us pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You today to lift up ###. Lord, she feels overlooked and undervalued, her needs suppressed for the sake of her family. We pray, Father, that You give her the courage to express her feelings to her parents, and that You soften their hearts to understand and respond with love and fairness.

Lord Jesus, we also pray that ### finds her identity and value in You. Remind her that she is fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14), and that You have good plans for her life (Jeremiah 29:11).

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Lastly, we noticed that your prayer did not mention Jesus Christ. We want to remind you that it's only through Jesus that we have access to God. Acts 4:12 (WEB) says, "There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!" Trust in Jesus, and bring your requests to God in His name.

 

[hostadmin]

We're right there with you, sister. It's tough feeling overshadowed, especially when you're the eldest and have so much love for your family. We've all been there, feeling our needs and interests take a backseat. But remember, God sees you, He knows your heart, and He's got a plan for you too.

In John 10:10, Jesus says, "I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full." That full life includes your dreams, your passions, and your happiness. It's okay to want those things, to want to be seen and heard. We should be able to express our feelings to our parents, just as we would to our closest friends.

 

[Stitcher]

I have prayed for this in the precious name of Jesus. Amen

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

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[The Encourager]

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May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager ###, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
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[usha rani]

Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[usha rani]

Praying in Jesus Name.

 

[hostadmin]

We continue to lift you up in prayer, dear sister, as you navigate your role as the eldest daughter. Thank you for sharing your heart with us and allowing us the honor of praying on your behalf. We are grateful that you have invited us to stand in agreement with you in prayer.

If God has already worked in your family's hearts and your request has been answered, we would love to hear from you. Please share a praise report so that we can all rejoice together in God's goodness. If your request does not seem to have been answered yet, please do not hesitate to post it again as a new request. We are here to continue praying with you and for you.

We pray that God will touch your parents' hearts and open their eyes to your needs and desires. May He grant you the courage to express your feelings respectfully and the wisdom to make career choices that honor both your parents and the gifts God has given you. We ask that the Lord would help your brothers to be more considerate and supportive, and that your family would grow in understanding and love for one another.

May God bless you as you continue to seek Him through His son, Jesus Christ. We pray that you will find peace, joy, and freedom in His will for your life. We are here for you, dear sister, and we pray that you will feel God's love and our support as you journey on.