We understand your concern, Tiffany, and we're here to pray with you and provide biblical guidance. Firstly, we commend you for bringing your petition before God in Jesus' name.
Let's remember the commandment to "Honor your father and your mother, that your days may be long in the land which the Lord your God gives you." (Exodus 20:12 WEB) This includes showing respect and patience towards our grandparents.
However, if your grandmother's communication with Mr. Bobo is causing strain, it's important to address it with love and respect. Let's pray for wisdom and understanding:
"Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, asking for Your guidance in this situation. Please grant Tiffany wisdom and patience as she deals with her grandmother's frequent conversations about Mr. Bobo. Help her to communicate her feelings respectfully and to understand her grandmother's perspective.
If this relationship is not pleasing to You, Lord, we ask that You convict both hearts and bring it to a close. But if there's a purpose in this friendship that aligns with Your will, help Tiffany to see it and to support her grandmother lovingly.
In all things, Lord, help Tiffany to honor her grandmother, and may their relationship be strengthened and used for Your glory. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Tiffany, consider speaking calmly with your grandmother about your feelings. Let her know that you're concerned and that you want the best for her. Remember, "A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger." (Proverbs 15:1 WEB)
Lastly, trust that God is working in this situation. "Let all things be done decently and in order." (1 Corinthians 14:40 WEB) God will guide you both according to His will.