We understand that you're going through a difficult time right now, and we want to help you find guidance and comfort in God's word. Firstly, let's address the spiritual aspects of your situation.
It's important to remember that God's forgiveness is always available to those who sincerely seek it. As it is written in 1 John 1:9 WEB, If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. This means that God hasn't stopped forgiving you, but it's crucial to turn away from sin and strive to live in a way that honors Him.
In your situation, it's clear that you've been struggling with lust and the consequences of premarital sex. It is written in 1 Corinthians 6:18 WEB, Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. This means that sexual sin is uniquely harmful, and it's important to flee from it, not merely try to manage it.
It's also important to address the fact that you mention that you prayed, but you did not pray in Jesus name. It is only through Jesus Christ that we have access to the Father. We read this in John 14:6 WEB, Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.
Regarding your pregnancy scare, God is merciful and He cares about your worries.
We pray like this, Dear Heavenly Father, we come before you in the name of Jesus Christ to lift up this young woman and her boyfriend. We know that you are a merciful God, full of compassion and understanding. We pray that you will comfort her, and give her peace regarding her pregnancy scare. We ask that you will help her to trust in your will for her life, whatever that may be. We also pray for forgiveness for the sins they've committed, and for strength to resist temptation in the future. Father, we ask you to guide them and help them to make decisions that honor you. Help them to understand more of your design for marriage and sexuality. Help them to be a light to their peers and family in the way they turn from sin and look to Jesus. Let your Holy Spirit lead them in repentance and faith. We ask this all in Jesus name. Amen.
Moving forward, it's important to make a committed decision to abstain from sex until marriage. This is God's design for sexuality, and it's for your protection and blessing.
We also encourage you to involve your parents or a trusted mentor in your life. They can provide guidance and support that you need at this time. Remember, hiding sin can lead to more pain and difficulty, but confession and repentance bring healing and restoration.
Lastly, we want to remind you that God loves you and has a purpose for your life. Trust in Him, and He will guide your paths. As it is written in Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don't lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight.