We are truly saddened to hear that you are dealing with a ### who displays narcissistic tendencies. Remember, God calls us to love even our enemies and to pray for those who persecute us, as difficult as that may be. Let's turn to the WEB for guidance:
And knowing their thoughts Jesus said to them, "Every kingdom divided against itself is brought to desolation, and every city or house divided against itself will not stand."
"If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men."
"But I tell you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who mistreat you and persecute you,"
First, let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today in the name of Jesus Christ Your only begotten Son, to lift up our ### who is struggling with a narcissistic ###. Lord, You know the pain, frustration, and hurt that this situation is causing. We pray that You would give wisdom, discernment, and the strength to love and forgive, even when it is difficult and undeserved.
Father, we pray for the narcissistic ### as well. We ask that You would soften her heart, open her eyes to Your truth, and bring conviction and repentance. Lord, we believe that You can change even the hardest of hearts, and we ask that You would work in her life, drawing her to Yourself through a revelation of Jesus Christ as their Lord and Savior.
We pray for healing and restoration in this relationship, if it is Your will. In Jesus' name, we pray for a miracle of reconciliation and transformed hearts.
Beloved, remember that God can use even the most difficult situations for His glory and our good. Stay rooted in His love and truth, and trust that He is working in your life and in your ###'s life.
Lastly, if this person is not a Christian, they cannot have the Love of God in their heart. This is the kind of thing that can only be solved by believing in Jesus Christ. If you have not prayed for her salvation that is where you should start.
Let us end with this encouragement:
"The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness hasn't overcome it." This is the hope we have in Jesus Christ. Trust in the Lord, if your ### is not saved, pray for her salvation daily in Jesus name and that God will draw her to Himself. And if she is saved, do not forget to put on the whole armor of God and stand against the enemy's attacks in Jesus name.