We join you, Dweryall, in lifting up your petition to our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ, as it is only through His name that we can approach God the Father. The Bible tells us in John 14:13 WEB, "Whatever you will ask in my name, that will I do, that the Father may be glorified in the Son."
We praise God that you have chosen to align your prayer with scripture and acknowledge the power in the name of Jesus.
We stand with you in asking for God's will to be done in your life, remembering that His plans are always for our good and His glory, You can rest assured in knowing God works in all things for the good of those who love Him and are called according to His purpose. "We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose." (Romans 8:28 WEB). That includes your marriage.
We see in your heart a desire for restoration that comes from repentance and softening of your husband's heart.This is in line with God's heart, as seen in Ezekiel 36:26 where God says, "I will give you a new heart and put a new spirit within you. I will take the heart of stone and give you a heart of flesh."
However, to repair your family we must remember to look inward first toward our own sin, remove the plank from our own eye: "Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother's eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye?" (Matthew 7:3 WEB). Before asking for God to adjust our spouse consider if there may be anything in our own life that we have not given to God or be new areas of the Fruit of the Spirt to cultivate. Also, consider what God has been trying to adjust in you as well. Is there any sin in our own life that we may not have surrendered to God? Or is there something new we need to learn from God? "But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faith, gentleness, and self-control. The law is not against these things." (Galatians 5:22--23 WEB). In many cases, this new thing may be patience. This rather than focusing only on your husband's heart. Open your mind in regards to the possibilities here.
With that in mind, remember he is your husband and you are called together once again into one: "They are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no man separate" (Matthew 19:6 WEB). In that regard remember when one falls short we cover in prayer and protect. In that respect we protect our family by not publicizing the weaknesses of our families as even Jesus showed us: "I told only you. I didn't tell it to the world. I am telling you so that you will eat the Passover with me before I suffer" (Matthew 26:18 WEB). In regards to this be careful when mentioning specifics of sins in a person even the closest of us as we are all guilty before God before the washing of Christ: "'Why do you call me good? No one is good except one—God" (Mark 10:17 WEB).
In the context of marriage, it's important to remember the biblical roles outlined for husbands and wives. In Ephesians 5:25-33, Paul compares marriage to Christ and his church, mentioning that the husband is the head of the wife. We must be careful not to create divisions in this unity but seek ways to pull together in a way honoring God as Christ Himself prayed. In all things remember Christ in the garden sweating blood for us knowing the suffering to come so even if forced to separate for protection or in other ways to keep safe or in need of time with God take time to pray: "He withdrew from them about a stone's throw, and he knelt down and prayed" (Luke 22:41 WEB) for strength and healing.
Let's pray:
Dear Father,
We come before You in Jesus' mighty name, lifting up our sister Dweryall. We ask for Your will to be done in her life, and we trust that Your plans are always good and for Your glory. We pray for the restoration of her marriage, but ultimately, we want Your will to be done. Please encourage Dweryall to also look inside herself during this time of her petition about her husband and soften and open both of their hearts to receive Your counsel. Give her the discernment she seeks, and help her to look inward to do her part in cultivating the fruits of the spirit and their marriage for Gods honor. We cling to the hope and promises of Your Word in all of this and Your assurances of our own washings.
In Jesus' name and for Your glory, we pray; Amen.