Dweryall, we stand with you in prayer and supplication, seeking God's will for your life. We thank God for this new week and His unfailing love for us. It is so important that you are coming to God through Jesus. John 14:6 WEB Jesus said "I am the way, the truth". Similarly, we are to believe in Jesus Christ to be saved as it also says the name of Jesus is the only name by which we can be saved in Acts 4:12 WEB.
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We are grateful that you have brought your concerns to God, the Bible tells each of us to humble ourselves, surrender our lives to God and trust God in all circumstances: Psalm 55:22 WEB "Cast your burden on Yahweh, and he will sustain you. He will never allow the righteous to be moved."
Similarly in Psalms 37:3 WEB "Trust in Yahweh, and do good. Dwell in the land, and enjoy safe pasture." Then 1 Peter 5:7 WEB "casting all your worries on him, because he cares for you."
Your heart is heavy and the hurt and pain felt deeply because of marriage. Your marriage is on your heart and it is hard. We are not sure of the exact circumstances but the Bible says in Malachi 2:16 WEB "'For I hate divorce,' says Yahweh, the God of Israel, 'and him who covers his garment with violence!' says Yahweh of Armies. 'Therefore take heed to your spirit, and donโt be unfaithful.'"
We exhort you to be faithful towards your spouse. God considers divorce as being unfaithful to your spouse. However, we know that there are some cases where separation is allowable if the other spouse is perpetrating violence or abuses. We do not have all of the details of your marriage but no matter what has happened, God desires to help you through your circumstances.
We are praying for you for strength and for endurance during these circumstances. Romans 5:3 WEB "we also rejoice in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance."
May God improve your circumstances with your marriage. We exhort you to surrender any and all anger towards your spouse. 1 John 4:20 WEB "If a man says, 'I love God,' and hates his brother, he is a liar; for he who doesnโt love his brother whom he has seen, how can he love God whom he has not seen?" This similarly applies to your spouse and marriage.
We are praying for you to exhibit the Fruit of the Spirit as you are able by God's Holy Spirit Galatians 5:22-23 WEB "But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faith, gentleness, and self-control. Against such things there is no law."
We will also pray for your spouse's salvation. Perhaps God will soften his or her heart. Remember the Scripture that says 1 Peter 3:1 WEB "are likewise to be in subjection to their own husbands; so that, even if any donโt obey the Word, they may be won by the behavior of their wives without a word." Also remember a similar scripture related to the opposite spouse 1 Corinthians 7:16 WEB "For how do you know, wife, whether you will save your husband? Or how do you know, husband, whether you will save your wife?" Remember this scripture is not saying you are required to get married, only that if you do get married, follow God's commandments to be in subjection to your husband. This does not include any mistreatment or abuse.
Therefore, in Jesus Name we are praying for God to bless your marriage with believers being married. We pray for God's perfect will regarding your marriage in Jesus name. As you pray for strength and God's will including healing your marriage, we similarly pray that God will make a way for your hurt to turn to joy and your marriage to be restored according to God's will. We leave this prayer request in Jesus' hands together in Jesus' name.
Now concerning your marriage and relationship, if you believe in Jesus Christ, are a Christian, and this marriage is one woman and one man, and if you can take your spouse back through forgiveness because God is leading and convicting you, then we overly support this marriage as it brings hope in Jesus, happiness in Jesus, enjoyment in Jesus, and God's plan when this is restored. It is better to have a relationship and marriage between a man and a woman the way God intended. There is no marriage or relationship allowed like a committed couple between man and a man and a woman and a woman, this would be homosexuality. It is better to marry than making a mistake such as an affair, going from a married man or woman to a divorced man or woman. We pray that you and your spouse can be forgiven and give grace to each other as the Bible says. We pray if there is a man with a man leaving their spouses or marriage or woman with a woman leaving their spouses or marriage that God will reconcile this situation and intervention and lead them to God and a godly heterosexual marriage that God intended if these individuals are to be together. We pray God can make you or them straight by God's power even though others say God will not do this.
Remember the Scripture Colossians 3:13 WEB "bearing with one another, and forgiving each other, if any man has a complaint against any; even as Christ forgave you, so you also do."
Remember the Scripture Ephesians 4:32 WEB "Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you."
Remember the Scripture Matthew 6:14 WEB "For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you.
Similarly the Scripture Mark 11:25 WEB "When you stand praying, forgive, if you have anything against anyone; so that your Father, who is in heaven, may also forgive you your transgressions."