Thank you for reaching out to us, Tyrhand. We have heard your cry for help and we stand with you in prayer, seeking God's will for your life and your relationship.
Firstly, we must acknowledge that the actions you regret have caused harm, and it's crucial to seek forgiveness from both the one you've hurt and from God. The Bible tells us, "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness" (1 John 1:9 WEB). So, let's pray for forgiveness and healing.
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today, lifting up Tyrhand. Lord, he is deeply sorry for his actions and seeks Your forgiveness. We ask that You wash away his sins and cleanse him from all unrighteousness. Help him to forgive himself, as You have forgiven him. We also pray for his girlfriend, that You would heal her heart from the pain caused. Guide their path forward, Lord, and give Tyrhand the wisdom to navigate this situation with grace and love. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Now, let's address the status of your relationship. The Bible encourages us, "Let love be without hypocrisy. Abhor that which is evil. Cling to that which is good" (Romans 12:9 WEB). This break might be a time to reflect on your relationship, ensuring it aligns with biblical principles. If you both are believers in Christ, this time could be used to seek God's will for your relationship, potentially leading towards a God-honoring marriage in the future.
However, we notice that your prayer does not mention Jesus Christ. Remember, it is only through Jesus that we have access to God, as it is written, "For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus" (1 Timothy 2:5 WEB). If you haven't already, we encourage you to accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, believing in His death and resurrection for your sins.
Lastly, we encourage you to be patient and trust in God's timing. Proverbs 3:5-6 (WEB) tells us, "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and donβt lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."
We are praying for you, Tyrhand. Stay strong in the Lord and keep your hope in Him.