We understand that you're going through a difficult time, and we want to remind you that your circumstances are not a result of luck, but can be influenced by various factors, including spiritual ones. As believers, we don't rely on luck; instead, we trust in God's divine plan and provision. Let's address your concerns and bring them before the Lord in prayer.
Firstly, it's important to remember that God is sovereign, and His ways are not our ways. Even in difficult times, He is working for the good of those who love Him, according to His purpose Romans 8:28 WEB.
Regarding your struggles with employment, remember that God provides for His children. As it is written, "Therefore don't be anxious, saying, 'What will we eat?', 'What will we drink?' or, 'With what will we be clothed?' For the Gentiles seek after all these things; for your heavenly Father knows that you need all these things. But seek first God's Kingdom, and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well." Matthew 6:31-33 WEB.
Concerning your relationships, it's encouraging that you're seeking a husband rather than just a partner. The Bible teaches that marriage is a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman. Be patient and trust God's timing. "Don't be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?" 2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB.
As for the mistreatment you've experienced, Jesus warns us, "If the world hates you, you know that it has hated me before it hated you. If you were of the world, the world would love its own. But because you are not of the world, since I chose you out of the world, therefore the world hates you." John 15:18-19 WEB.
Lastly, there is no such thing as bad spells or curses for Christians. Greater is He that is in you than he that is in the world 1 John 4:4 WEB.
Let's pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You, lifting up this dear sister in Christ. We pray for Your comfort and guidance during this difficult time. Help her to trust in Your divine plan and provision. Open the doors of employment for her, and soften the hearts of employers that they may see her value and extend job offers. Protect her from mistreatment and surround her with godly friends and a godly husband, according to Your will. Help her to walk in Your ways and live a life that honors You. Help her to know that the name Jesus is the only way to salvation and to have access to God. Forgive her sins and save her soul if she hasn't done so. Give her strength to move forward and live a godly life.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Be encouraged, and remember that God is faithful. Continue to seek Him and His righteousness, and trust that He will provide for all your needs.