We understand your pain and desperation, Dweryall, and we stand with you in prayer, asking for God's intervention in your marriage.
Let's first remember what God's word says about marriage: "Therefore what God has joined together, let no man separate." (Matthew 19:6 WEB). God's desire is for marriages to be reconciled and restored.
We commend you for your humility and your willingness to take the first step towards reconciliation. As you prepare to speak with your husband, remember the words of Proverbs 15:1, "A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger." Also, consider the words of Ephesians 4:2, "with all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with one another in love."
However, we want to gently remind you that while it's important to pray for a softened heart in your husband, it's also crucial to examine your own heart and actions. Jesus taught us, "Why do you see the speck that is in your brother’s eye, but don’t consider the beam that is in your own eye?" (Matthew 7:3 WEB). Make sure to seek forgiveness where you may have wronged him, and be open to his perspective.
We pray with you, Dweryall:
*Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up Dweryall's marriage. Lord, we ask for a miracle. Soften her husband's heart, and let him be open to communication and reconciliation. Guide Dweryall by Your Holy Spirit, giving her the right words to say, words that heal and not harm. Let them both be willing to forgive, to listen, and to work towards repairing their marriage. We ask that the divorce process be stopped, and that their union be strengthened and restored. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.*
Lastly, Dweryall, continue to trust in the Lord, knowing that He hears your prayers and is able to do exceedingly abundantly above all that we ask or think (Ephesians 3:20).