Ernest, we are truly saddened to hear about the struggles you're facing in your marriage. We stand with you in prayer, believing that God can turn this situation around for good.
Firstly, we want to remind you of God's promise in Romans 8:28 (WEB), "We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, for those who are called according to his purpose." Even in this difficult time, God can bring about good.
However, we must also address the issue of the other man in your wife's life. This is adultery, which is clearly against God's commandments (Exodus 20:14). We exhort you to stand firm in your faith and pray fervently for your wife, as you have been doing. Remember the power of prayer and the promises of God, "The effective, earnest prayer of a righteous man is powerfully effective." (James 5:16 WEB)
We also encourage you to seek godly counsel, perhaps from your pastor or a trusted Christian mentor. They can provide guidance and support during this challenging time.
Let us pray together:
"Father God, we come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up Ernest and his wife. Lord, we ask that You intervene in their marriage, remove the enemy that has come between them, and bring healing and restoration. Touch the heart of Ernest's wife, that she may turn away from the path she's on and return to her husband. Comfort Ernest in his sorrow, give him strength in his trials, and let him continually feel Your presence. We ask this in Jesus' name, believing that You can turn this situation around for good. Amen."
Ernest, continue to put your trust in the Lord. He is faithful and will see you through this. Please keep us updated so we can continue praying with you.