We understand that you're going through a difficult time, and we want to help you pray and navigate this situation according to God's will. You mentioned that you're praying for the return of your ex-girlfriend, and it's clear that you have strong feelings for her. However, let's align this desire with biblical principles and trust in God's plan for your life. Even though you mentioned Jesus at the end of your prayer, remember it is only through His name that we have access to God. Let's keep that in mind as we discuss and pray about this situation.
Firstly, let's consider that God's design for relationships is that they should honor Him and align with His word in the Bible. As you look to God for a spouse, consider the courtship should be with the goal of marriage. In I Corinthians 7:2 WEB it says, But because of sexual immorities, let each man have his own wife, and let each woman have her own husband. So just as God wants a married man to have his own wife, He wants a married woman to have her own husband. According to I Corinthians 7:8-9 WEB, But I tell you, remain steadfast to the Lord without marriage. But if you lack self-control, let him marry. For it's better to marry than to burn. So clearly God wants us to avoid sexual immorality, which is fornication. This is why the courtship and the marriage relationship should be between Christians. Avoid being unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what fellowship has righteousness with lawlessness? What communion has light with darkness. II Corinthians 6:14 WEB. Additionally, II Corinthians 6:17 WEB states, Therefore come out from among them, and be separate,' says the Lord, 'Touch no unclean thing. I will receive you. Also, Romans 12:2 WEB tells us, Don't be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, so that you may prove what is the good, well-pleasing, and perfect will of God. So clearly according to God's word, this should be a courtship between Christians with the goal of marriage.
Now, let's pray together for God's will in your life.
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You, lifting up our brother in Christ who is hurting and seeking Your guidance. Lord, we ask that You grant him the wisdom to understand what he is going through. We pray that You align his desires with Your perfect will. Help him to seek You first, and to trust in Your plan for his life. If it is Your will that he has a spouse, we pray that You will bless this desire and provide a godly wife for him to marry. As we pray for this, Lord, we ask that You guide him in this courtship with another Believer. Help him to be strong and resist temptation. We ask all this in Jesus' name, Amen.