Praying for the change of mind of Olvito (love of my life)

[Typhlysso]

Praise the Lord This is Seabal Dias here seeking your help and assistance I'll tell you the situation, please help me get through it with a positive response There is this boy named Olvito Vaz with whom I've been in love for past 13-14 years but that time it was just one sided love (only from my side) but after corona he came to me and proposed to me and since then we were in a committed relationship.....when we were in relation I always used to fight with him for every small thing and always blamed his family due to a very big misunderstanding....I used to think his family doesn't like me which was actually a misunderstanding and he always used to tell me not to speak anything against his family without knowing the truth but I had my ego and my attitude but when I came to know the truth I was so embarrassed and ashamed of my ownself....now I realised my mistakes and I honestly want to correct them with a genuine sincere heart.........I apologized to him and his family......his family understood me..... We were supposed to be getting married this year but now he's refusing to get married saying that I won't take care of his family..... Pastor I've realised my mistakes and I honestly want to correct them and want to treat his family well with love and care but this 1 is not ready to forgive me..... Pastor I just want 1 chance to correct my mistakes and live happily with his family.....I just want him to forgive me 1 last time and give me 1 last chance to be with his family I just can't understand how to convince him to give me 1 last chance I've been struggling and overburdened with that guilt....I just want him to forgive me 1 last time.... pastor what should I do to gain that forgiveness? I genuinely love him and want him back somehow so that this time I can give him all the love care and respect that he deserves The thing is, starting there was lot of love among us but because of my misunderstandings and my stupidity now he changed his mind....based on my past mistakes and my negative reactions, now he has created a negative impression about me in his mind that I won't treat his family well.....I just don't understand now how to tell him that I admit each and every mistake of mine I've realised how much wrong I was and sincerely want to repent for forgiveness and ask for another chance to correct all my mistakes and live with them happily....I want all obstacles misunderstandings and other negative things that are there on our path to be removed in Jesus's name and our path be cleared so that we can walk towards each other and reconcile......it's been 7 months now I'm struggling to convince him..... sometimes I feel like am I really that bad that even God doesn't want to forgive me and give me another chance?

 

[Articles]

We understand your heartache, Typhlysso, and we're here to pray with you and provide biblical guidance. First, let's acknowledge that forgiveness and reconciliation are central themes in our Christian walk. Jesus said, "If you forgive others their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive others their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses." (Matthew 6:14-15, WEB).

However, we must also recognize that true repentance involves a change of heart and action. You've acknowledged your mistakes, which is a crucial first step. Now, it's important to demonstrate your change consistently over time. Remember, "Let us not love in word only, neither with the tongue only, but in deed and truth." (1 John 3:18, WEB).

Let's pray together:

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You today in Jesus' name, lifting up Typhlysso. Lord, You know the desires of her heart and the pain she's experiencing. We ask for Your forgiveness for any mistakes she has made, and we thank You that because of Jesus, she can stand forgiven. Lord, we ask that You soften Olvito's heart, that he may find it in himself to forgive and give their relationship another chance. Help Typhlysso to demonstrate her change of heart consistently, and bless their potential union, that it may bring glory to Your name. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Now, Typhlysso, it's important to respect Olvito's decision and give him space. Continue to show love and respect to him and his family, but avoid pushing the issue. Trust that God is working in his heart. Also, use this time to grow in your own relationship with God. Remember, "Wait on Yahweh. Be strong, and let your heart take courage. Yes, wait on Yahweh." (Psalm 27:14, WEB).

Lastly, we noticed that your request did not mention Jesus Christ explicitly. We want to remind you that it's only through His name that we have access to God. "For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus." (1 Timothy 2:5, WEB). If you haven't already, we encourage you to put your faith in Jesus Christ for salvation.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here with you, Seabal. We understand the struggle you're going through, and we want to lift you and Olvito up in prayer. It's clear that you've taken steps to acknowledge and apologize for your past mistakes, and that's commendable. Now, it's important to let Olvito process things at his own pace. Keep showing him love and respect, but also give him space. Trust that God is working in both of your hearts.

Let's pray together:

"Dear Lord, we come before you today, asking for your wisdom and guidance in Seabal's situation. We lift up Olvito, asking that you soften his heart and help him find it within himself to forgive Seabal. Help them both to learn from the past and grow together. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Remember, Seabal, forgiveness is a process, and it's okay if Olvito needs time. Keep trusting in God's plan, and use this time to grow in your own relationship with Him. As it says in Lamentations 3:22-23, "Because of the Lord’s great love we are not consumed, for his compassions never fail. They are new every morning; great is your faithfulness." Trust in His faithfulness, and keep seeking His face.

 

[MomsPetunia]

Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Sanjoy Mudoi]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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