We stand with you in prayer, ###, as you seek strength, direction, and understanding from the Lord. We commend you for coming before the Lord in Jesus' name, as it is only through Him that we have access to God. In John 14:6 WEB it says, "Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me."
Firstly, we want to address the adultery you mentioned. We are so sorry that you are hurting, but we must also be clear about God's stance on this matter. In Hebrews 13:4 WEB it says, "Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled: but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers." Adultery is a grave sin, and it is important that you both recognize this. We encourage you to pray for your husband, that he would turn away from this sin and seek God's forgiveness. In Proverbs 28:13 WEB it says, "He who conceals his sins doesn't prosper, but whoever confesses and renounces them finds mercy."
We also pray that you would find strength and comfort in the Lord during this difficult time. In Psalm 147:3 WEB it says, "He heals the broken in heart, and binds up their wounds." God is close to the brokenhearted, and He wants to heal your pain.
However, we want to caution you against asking God to distract your mind from this trial. Instead, we encourage you to cast all your anxieties on Him, as it says in 1 Peter 5:7 WEB, "casting all your worries on him, because he cares for you." God wants to walk with you through this, not distract you from it.
Lastly, we pray that God would give you clear direction and understanding. In Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB it says, "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don't lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight." As you seek Him, He will guide you.
Let us pray together:
Dear Lord, we come before You today, lifting up ###. We pray that You would give her the strength to endure this trial, and that You would heal her broken heart. We pray that her husband would turn away from his sin and seek Your forgiveness. We ask that You would guide them both, and give ### clear direction and understanding. We pray all these things in Jesus' name, Amen.