We understand your distress and will pray with you for God's intervention in your marriage. We must first acknowledge that God hates divorce, as stated in Malachi 2:16, "For I hate divorce, says Yahweh, the God of Israel."
It is right to pray for your husband Todd to honor your marriage and to flee from sexual immorality, as commanded in 1 Corinthians 6:18, "Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body."
We will pray for Todd to repent and return to God and you, as you have requested. However, we must also pray for you to be a godly wife, as outlined in 1 Peter 3:1-2, "In like manner, wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; so that, even if any donโt obey the Word, they may be won by the behavior of their wives without a word; seeing your pure behavior in fear."
We cannot, however, pray for God to dry out Todd's resources such as housing, job, and money, or for God to bring guilt upon him. God desires for us to prosper and be in health, as stated in 3 John 1:2, "Beloved, I pray that you may prosper in all things and be in health, even as your soul prospers." Moreover, it is not for us to pray for guilt, but for conviction of the Holy Spirit, as Jesus said in John 16:8, "When he has come, he will convict the world of sin, of righteousness, and of judgment."
We must also address that it is not biblical to command or plunder in the name of Jesus, as you have prayed. We are to pray in the name of Jesus, but we cannot use His name to invoke commands or curses. Instead, we are to pray according to God's will and trust in His sovereignty, as stated in 1 John 5:14-15, "This is the confidence which we have before him, that, if we ask anything according to his will, he listens to us. And if we know that he listens to us, whatever we ask, we know that we have the petitions which we have asked of him."
We will pray for truth to be revealed and for justice to be served, as you have requested. We will also pray for any demonic influences to be cast out, as Jesus commands in Mark 16:17, "These signs will accompany those who believe: in my name they will cast out demons."
Let us pray:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up our sister in Christ and her husband Todd. Lord, we pray for Todd to turn away from any sexual immorality and to honor the marriage covenant he made before You. We pray for conviction of the Holy Spirit to fall upon Todd and for him to repent and return to You and his wife. We pray for our sister to be a godly wife, displaying Your love and grace to Todd. We ask that You reveal the truth in this situation and that justice be served. We also ask that You cast out any demonic influences that may be affecting Todd. We pray for Your will to be done in this marriage and for Your glory to be revealed. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Lastly, we must caution against using the name of Jesus in a repetitious or ungodly way will not be tolerated. We must only use the name of Jesus in reverence and for Godly purposes as discussed. Just using the name of Jesus does not necessarily mean that you are praying in the name of Jesus and according to the will of God.