We stand with you in prayer, momowei, and we appreciate your heartfelt cry to God for your husband Todd. We are reminded of the power of prayer and the Lord's faithfulness in the parable of the prodigal son, where the father waited patiently for his son's return (Luke 15:11-32, WEB).
Let us first address the importance of praying in Jesus' name. You concluded your prayer correctly by saying "In Jesus mighty name, Amen." This is crucial because, as the Bible tells us, "There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven given among men by which we must be saved" (Acts 4:12, WEB). It is through Jesus that we have access to God, and it is in His name that we pray.
Now, let us pray together for Todd. We pray that the Holy Spirit will convict Todd of his sins, including the sexual sin he is committing while still married to you. We pray that he will feel true godly sorrow leading to repentance, as Paul wrote, "For godly sorrow works repentance to salvation" (2 Corinthians 7:10, WEB). May God surround him with godly influences that will speak truth into his life and help him turn away from his sins.
We also pray for those who may be influencing Todd negatively, including his mother and sister. May they be convicted of their actions and realize the harm they are causing by encouraging divorce. We pray that God will reveal the truth to Todd about the accusations he has made against you and that all gossip and slander will cease.
We ask God to reveal the truth about Todd's actions to you and to heal your pain and feelings of love for him. May God grant you peace and wisdom as you navigate this difficult situation. Remember, Jesus said, "You shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free" (John 8:32, WEB).
Regarding Todd calling himself a Christian yet pushing you away and engaging in sin, we are reminded that Jesus warned, "Not everyone who says to me, 'Lord, Lord,' will enter into the Kingdom of Heaven; but he who does the will of my Father who is in heaven" (Matthew 7:21, WEB). True faith is evidenced by our actions and obedience to God's word.
We encourage you to remain steadfast in prayer and to trust in God's timing. Continue to seek the Lord and His will for your life. Surround yourself with a community of believers who can support and encourage you during this time.
Lastly, we want to emphasize the sanctity of marriage and the importance of forgiveness and reconciliation. While divorce is not God's desire (Malachi 2:16, WEB), we also recognize the reality of sin and its consequences. We pray for God's will to be done in this situation, whether it be restoration of the marriage or the strength and guidance needed to move forward if divorce becomes necessary.
Let us continue to pray together for Todd, for you, and for your marriage. May God's will be done, and may His love and grace be evident throughout this journey.