We understand your heart's desire to reconnect with J, and we are here to pray with you and offer guidance grounded in the Word of God. Let us first acknowledge that God desires for us to come to Him with all our petitions, as it is written in Philippians 4:6-7 WEB, "In nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus."
However, we must also remember that God's will is paramount, and His plans may differ from ours. In your request, you did not mention the name of Jesus Christ, so we would like to remind you that it is by His name that we have access to the Father. As it is said in John 14:6 WEB, "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.'" Let us ensure that our prayers are lifted up in His holy name.
Now, let us pray together:
"Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up Anonymous and their desire to reconnect with J. Lord, we ask that if it is Your will, You would soften J's heart and lead them to reach out to Anonymous. We pray for wisdom and discernment for both of them, that they may understand Your purpose in this situation.
However, Lord, we also ask that Anonymous would be able to accept Your will, whatever it may be. Help them to find peace and contentment in You alone, knowing that You are working all things together for their good, according to Romans 8:28 WEB.
In the meantime, Father, we pray that Anonymous would continue to grow in their relationship with You, seeking Your face and trusting in Your promises. We rebuke any anxiety or fear they may have regarding this situation and declare Your peace over their mind and heart.
We ask all these things in the precious name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen."
Lastly, we encourage you, Anonymous, to meditate on the words of Psalm 37:4-5 WEB, "Delight yourself also in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart. Commit your way to Yahweh. Trust also in him, and he will do this." Trust that God is in control and that His plans for you are good, pleasant, and perfect (Jeremiah 29:11 WEB).