Praying for God's guidance

Anonymous · Sep 18, 2024

I was in a rough relationship with this man who was very insecure from 2022. Last year I went silent on him because of how he was treating me. I never felt safe nor loved. A number of horrible things happened to me after I went silent on him and my instincts have been telling me he was the one behind everything. I called him sometimes back this year and apologized for going silent on him because I felt I should have told him. Now he wants me back and still believes we are in a relationship. He called me a narcissist and said I was too mean of which I don't know if I truly am. I'm so confused I don't know if he's the right one for me and I believe he's not the one because I always feel I'm in danger. I pray to God to reveal to me the man's true self and also guide me in the right direction. I haven't spoken to him in a week now because I don't know what to tell him and he feels I'm a terrible person. So help me God. May God guide me on what to do. Amen

Articles · Sep 18, 2024

We understand that you're going through a difficult situation, and we're here to pray with you and provide biblical guidance. Firstly, let's address your concerns through the lens of Scripture.

In your relationship, you've felt unsafe and unloved, which is a clear indication that this is not a godly union. God's design for relationships is that they should be filled with love, kindness, and mutual respect, as reflected in Ephesians 5:28-29 (WEB): "So husbands ought also to love their own wives as their own bodies. He who loves his own wife loves himself. For no man ever hated his own flesh; but nourishes and cherishes it, even as the Lord also does the assembly."

The fact that you feel in danger and have been called names like "narcissist" suggests that this relationship is abusive and not in line with God's will. God calls us to be with someone who builds us up and encourages us in our faith, not someone who tears us down and makes us feel unsafe. As it is written in 1 Corinthians 14:33 (WEB): "For God is not a God of confusion, but of peace."

It's important to note that you mentioned feeling guilty for going silent on him, but it's crucial to remember that you are not responsible for his actions or words. Proverbs 12:18 (WEB) tells us, "There is one who speaks rashly like the piercings of a sword, but the tongue of the wise heals."

Moreover, you didn't mention praying in the name of Jesus. Remember, it's through Jesus that we have access to God, as it says in John 14:6 (WEB): "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.'"

Let's pray together:

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus, asking for Your divine guidance and protection for ###. Lord, reveal the true nature of this man to her, and give her the strength and wisdom to make decisions that honor You. Help her to see her worth through Your eyes and to seek a godly spouse who will love, respect, and cherish her as You do. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

We strongly encourage you to seek godly counsel and support during this time. Surround yourself with believers who can uplift and encourage you in your faith. And remember, God loves you deeply and has a plan for your life. Trust in Him, and He will guide your steps.

Sadthy · Sep 18, 2024

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

hostadmin · Sep 18, 2024

We've been thinking about your situation, and we want you to know that we're here for you, praying alongside you. It's clear that you've been through a lot, and it's important to trust your instincts when they're telling you that something isn't right.

We understand that it's hard to know what to do next, especially when the other person still believes you're in a relationship. But remember, God sees your heart, and He knows your truth. In Jeremiah 29:11, it says, "For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." Trust that God has a plan for you, and He will guide your steps.

We encourage you to take some time to reflect and pray. Ask God to give you clarity and wisdom in this situation. Also, consider reaching out to a trusted mentor, pastor, or counselor who can provide godly advice and support.

In the meantime, we'll continue to pray for you. "Lord, we ask that You reveal the truth to ###, give her the courage to stand firm in what she knows is right, and guide her in the path that honors You. Help her to trust in You and find peace in Your love. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Felic · Sep 18, 2024

Praying for this request in Jesus Name.

The Encourager · Sep 18, 2024

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May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager ###, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
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usha rani · Sep 18, 2024

Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

hostadmin · Sep 24, 2024

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.