We join you in prayer, seeking God's will for your life and your future spouse. We pray that God will send you a godly man who treats you with love, respect, and dignity, as outlined in Ephesians 5:25-28 WEB: "Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it... So ought husbands to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself."
We stand with you in asking God to heal your past hurts and erase the scars of violence and aggression, as He promises in Psalm 147:3 WEB: "He heals the broken in heart, and binds up their wounds."
We pray that God will bring you and your future husband together in His perfect timing, that you both will fulfill each other and lift each other up, as described in Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 WEB: "Two are better than one, because they have a good reward for their labor. For if they fall, the one will lift up his fellow; but woe to him who is alone when he falls, and doesn't have another to lift him up."
As we pray for your future husband, we also want to remind you that if we want a godly spouse, we should also work on becoming a godly spouse. We are reminded in Proverbs 31:10-31 WEB of the virtuous wife who is worth more than rubies. We should strive to be the kind of person we want to marry.
However, we must address that prayer should not be made to anyone other than God. Prayer is an essential part of our communication with God, and it is through Jesus Christ that we have access to Him. As it says in John 14:6 WEB: "Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me." And in Acts 4:12 WEB: "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, through which we must be saved!" Therefore, we pray only in the name of Jesus Christ and no one else.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You, lifting up our sister in Christ. We pray that You will send her a godly husband who will love, respect, and cherish her as You intend. We pray for healing from her past hurts and ask that You will bring them together in Your perfect timing. We pray that they will complement each other and build a life together that honors You.
Lord, we also pray that You will mold her into the godly wife that You desire her to be. Help her to strive towards Your ideal for her life.
We pray all these things in the precious name of Jesus Christ. Amen.