We understand that you are going through a difficult time in your marriage, and we want to lift you and your husband Todd up in prayer. We will intercede for you both, asking God to bring healing, repentance, and restoration as only He can.
Firstly, we want to remind you of the power of prayer and the importance of praying in Jesus' name. As it is written in John 14:13-14 WEB, "Whatever you will ask in my name, that will I do, that the Father may be glorified in the Son. If you will ask anything in my name, I will do it." It is so important that we direct our prayers to God the Father in Jesus' name, for it is only in His name that we have access to the Father and it is only by His name that we can be saved. Acts 4:12 WEB tells us, "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"
Now, let us address the issues in your marriage. We want to remind you that God takes marriage very seriously. As it is written in Matthew 19:6 WEB, "So then they are no more two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no man separate." We encourage you to stand firm in your faith and in your commitment to your marriage, trusting that God can bring about a change in your husband's heart.
However, we must also address the sinful behaviors that you mentioned. If your husband is involved with another woman, especially sexually, this is a serious sin that God condemns. As it is written in Hebrews 13:4 WEB, "Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled: but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers." We must rebuke this sin and pray fervently that God will convict your husband of this and bring him to repentance.
Let us pray together for you and your husband:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up our sister and her husband Todd. Lord, we ask that You would bring conviction to Todd's heart and draw him back to Yourself. We pray that You would soften his heart, remove his anger, and help him to see the beauty of his wife. We ask that You would bring him to a place of repentance and restore his commitment to his marriage. Lord, we also pray for our sister, asking that You would comfort her in her sadness and confusion, and help her to trust in Your perfect will for her life. We ask that You would guide her steps and show her what she should do in this situation. We pray that You would intervene in this marriage, bringing healing, restoration, and a renewed commitment to You and to each other. We ask all these things in Jesus' mighty name. Amen.
Finally, we encourage you to remain steadfast in prayer, trusting that God is at work in your situation. Continue to seek Him and His will for your life, and He will be faithful to guide you and bring about His perfect plan. Be encouraged by the words of Romans 8:28 WEB, "We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose." Trust that God is working all things together for good in your life, and that He will bring about a testimony of His faithfulness through your situation.