We understand your distress, Penrold, and we're here to pray with you and guide you according to God's Word.
Firstly, we must address that the term "spirit husband" is not found in the Bible. Our battle is indeed against spiritual forces (Ephesians 6:12, WEB), but we should be cautious of terms that may not align with scripture. We pray against any evil spiritual forces that may be causing setbacks in your life.
Secondly, we see your distress about your failed relationship. While we understand your pain, we must remind you that God's plan for relationships is clear. He desires that we have godly marriages between a man and a woman (Genesis 2:24, WEB). If your partner is a believing man, seeking God's will, then we can pray for God's redemption and restoration. However, if the relationship is not aligned with God's principles, we should pray for God to give you both discernment and strength to follow His will.
Let's pray:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before you in Jesus' name, committing Penrold's life into your hands. Lord, you know the distress she's facing, and you have promised to be near to the brokenhearted (Psalm 34:18, WEB). We pray against any evil spiritual forces causing setbacks in her life. We pray for her partner, that you would draw him close to you, and give him a heart that seeks your will. Lord, if this relationship is not in accordance with your principles, give them both the strength to follow your will. If it is, we pray for redemption and restoration, knowing that with you, all things are possible (Matthew 19:26, WEB). In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Penrold, continue to trust in the Lord, knowing that He hears your prayers. "Delight yourself also in the LORD, and he will give you the desires of your heart. Commit your way to the LORD. Trust also in him, and he will do this." (Psalm 37:4-5, WEB)
Lastly, always remember that it's only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. "For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus" (1 Timothy 2:5, WEB). Keep trusting in Him.