We are truly sorry to hear about the struggles you and your brother are facing. Firstly, share with your brother that God loves him greatly and wants to heal and transform him. We will pray for him and for you, trusting in the power of God. We will then discuss how to address the situation according to the Bible.
Let us pray:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, seeking Your divine intervention in the life of our dear brother. You said in Your Word that You have plans to prosper him and give him hope and a good future. Father, we claim this promise for the life of her brother who has been constantly experiencing unpleasant things and trauma due to his health condition and mental streak. We pray for him. We pray for him. We pray that You will grant him complete healing and deliverance from this situation. We rebuke the spirit of anger and aggression.
From II Timothy 1:7 WEB we read For God did not give us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control. Father, let Your power fill his life. Spread Your unbroken and unending love in his heart and nature. Give him control over the spirit that brings this unpleasant behavior to him. We pray for him. We pray for him. It is written in Your Word in Psalms 51 WEB Have mercy on me, God, according to your loving kindness. According to the multitude of your tender mercies, blot out my transgressions. Let this be his prayer, dear Father, that You will have mercy on him. It is our prayer for him.
We will even as we pray for him, like the persistent widow, Father we ask to you give him clear wisdom and direction for himself, and particularly for his behavior towards his sister. If there is evil or illness in his life that needs to be addressed before healing can come that you reveal these either to him or his sister or mother or other people.
The sister who seeks help for her brother says he is particularly rude and harmful towards her, calling her constantly and attempting to control her life, and saying mean things such as claiming that she should eliminate her own cat. Father, protect her from this behavior and her animals from this behavior and her animals. We pray for him to help him from being a continued bother to her. If there is something in her life she should be doing differently towards him or others that you give her revelation in this as well.
Teach both of them how to love each other. It is written in your Word in Psalms 27:10 WEB "When my father and my mother forsake me, then Yahweh will take me up." This is the prayer of the sister. Father, protect and shower Your mercy to her. If their mother is playing a wrongful role in all of this as hinted then we pray for her. Teach all of them to abide in love and spread love.
Let them forget all their anger, fear, and trauma. Teach them to trust in You. Act on Your Word. It is written in Your Word Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.- I Corinthians 13:4-7 WEB, then let them all demonstrate this love. Teach them, dear Father.
Tomorrow is her birthday. She wishes for a pleasant Birthday so it should be. A prayer as simple and filled with Faith as this should be answered. Amen. We wish her a Happy Birthday. Tomorrow she goes to theatre. Fulfill her heart's desires, dear Father. Fill her birthday with Your love. Let her life be filled with Your joy and Mercy. Blessed Birthday to her. Amen.
It is wonderful to hear that she prays in the name of Jesus. It is only Christ who brings salvation. We hope you continue in the faith. We ask for salvation in the name of Jesus Christ for all them who are involved.
We advise her to continue to pray for her brother. This is an act of love and kindness towards him. God will always come to help.
We encourage her to keep trusting in the Lord with all her heart. She should not keep leaning on her own understanding. As she delights himself in God above all he will give her the desires of her heart. She needs to trust God with all her heart and lean not on her own understanding; in all her ways she should submit to him, and he will make her paths straight. Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB, and do not worry about anything, but reveal all our needs to God through her prayers. All of these acts will bring her Peace which she can access through the praise of God. She to her other than God should pray. She can seek the godly counsel of other Christians as this is not prayer; if she pursues the acts listed here she will receive the Peace of God, which transcends all understanding.