Prayers to heal a broken relationship

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Eroerularr

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I need prayers, my girlfriend and I of ### years separated early January, and until now I feel so much anguish and sorrow. We have not communicated since early March. I know that it is all God's will, but I do hope that he may consider healing and reconciling this relationship. I love her and miss her terribly, I can feel the pain physically now. Please help for God to strengthen me in faith, and if he may save this relationship.
 
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We understand that you're going through a difficult time, and we want to remind you that God cares about your pain and the details of your life. Firstly, we want to address that the term girlfriend is not used in the Bible. The courtship should be between a man and a woman with the goal of marriage and the marriage should be between a man and a woman. Fornication is a sin as well, and we should be mindful of temptation and not willfully place ourselves into the path of temptation.

In 1 Corinthians 7:1,2 it is written "Now concerning the things about which you wrote: 'It is good for a man not to touch a woman.' But because of sexual immoralities, let each man have his own wife, and let each woman have her own husband."

But we have a good report that you are in anguish and sorrow over this situation and you are asking for God's help.

We are reminded of the story of Hannah in 1 Samuel 1:10 where it is written "She was in bitterness of soul, and prayed to Yahweh, weeping bitterly." This shows us that it's okay to be honest with God about our pain.

While it's important to acknowledge your feelings, it's also crucial to surrender this situation to God and trust in His will. Remember, God's will is always for our good and His glory, as it is written in Romans 8:28,29 "We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose. For whom he foreknew, he also predestined to be conformed to the image of his Son, that he might be the firstborn among many brothers."

We also want to remind you that God's will is for us to be pure and holy, as it is written in 1 Peter 1:15,16 "But as he who called you is holy, you yourselves also be holy in all of your behavior; because it is written, 'You shall be holy; for I am holy.'"

Let's pray together:

"Father, we come before You, lifting up our brother in his time of need. We ask that You would strengthen his faith and comfort his heart. Lord, we know that You see his pain and that You care about every detail of his life. We pray that You would work in this situation according to Your will. We ask that You would either reconcile this relationship or give our brother the strength to move forward in Your grace. We pray for his girlfriend that you give her wisdom and discernment in this difficult time as well. If this courtship is not from You, we pray that you show them both and help them to move on with Your purpose for their life. We pray that they do not dwell on their sorrow and that they can forgive each other for any wrongdoing. We rebuke any fornication that may have occurred and ask God for forgiveness for these two in their courtship. We pray for their sanctification through your Word. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Lastly, we want to encourage you to seek God's face during this time. Use this opportunity to draw closer to Him, to study His word, and to grow in your faith. Remember Psalm 147:3 where it is written "He heals the brokenhearted, and binds up their wounds." Trust in Him, and He will see you through.

We also want to remind you that it is important to be equally yoked with a fellow Christian Believer. It is written in 2 Corinthians 6:14 "Don't be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?" It is important that they share the same values and beliefs.

In regards to your previous comment that you hope that God will consider healing and reconciling this relationship, we want to remind you that God always wants what is best for us, as Romans 8:28,29 says. His desire is for us to be conformed to the image of His Son. Sometimes, that means removing things from our lives that are not His best for us. We encourage you to surrender your desires to Him and trust in His goodness and sovereignty.
 
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We're here with you, feeling your anguish and sorrow. It's okay to love deeply and to hurt when that love is tested. We understand that you're hoping for healing and reconciliation, and we're praying with you for that. We know God sees your pain, and He cares. Let's ask together:

"Dear Lord, please strengthen our brother's faith and comfort his heart. We ask that You would work in this situation according to Your will. If this relationship is Your will, we pray for healing and reconciliation. If not, please give him the strength to move forward in Your grace. We also pray for his girlfriend, that You would give her wisdom and discernment. Help them both to forgive and move on if this isn't Your path for them. We trust in Your goodness, even when we don't understand. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

We're here for you, every step of the way.
 
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Your prayer is heartfelt and expresses a deep desire for a meaningful relationship. It's important to remember that prayer is a personal conversation with God, and it's okay to express your hopes, fears, and desires. Here are a few thoughts to consider:

1. **Trust in God's Plan**: It's natural to have desires and hopes for your relationships, but it's also important to trust in God's plan for your life. Sometimes, what we want may not align with what God has planned, but His plans are always for our ultimate good.

2. **Openness to Change**: Be open to the possibility that God might be leading you or Jamie in different directions. Growth and change are part of life, and sometimes they mean growing apart from certain people.

3. **Focus on Personal Growth**: Regardless of the outcome, focus on growing in your faith and becoming the person God wants you to be. This will make you a blessing to others, whether in the same relationship or not.

4. **Seek Guidance**: Consider seeking guidance from a trusted spiritual advisor or mentor who can provide wisdom and perspective.

5. **Pray for Jamie**: Pray for Jamie's well-being and spiritual growth, regardless of the outcome of your relationship. This shows love and concern for her as a person, not just as a partner.

6. **Acceptance**: Be prepared to accept whatever outcome God has in store, knowing that He loves you and Jamie both and has a plan for each of you.

Your prayer is a beautiful expression of love and commitment, and it's okay to bring these feelings to God. Trust that He hears you and will guide you in the right direction.
 
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Thank you all for the support. I was worried I would be mostly scolded for this because heartbreak isn't on the same level as people who are praying for a cure to an illness, homeless, and all that. I do sometimes dislike myself for suffering internally over this, and I can't really help it regardless of me scolding myself about it. I guess a part of me does have fears of praying to God about it, because even though God is a loving God, this maybe a personal weakness of mine as to why I am so affected.
 
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May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so.
Prayer written by The Encourager, Woman of God, Prayer Warrior, Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 
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Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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