We understand the heartache you're going through, Rhovsorern, but we want to guide you according to the principles laid out in Scripture. It's crucial to understand that God desires for us to be equally yoked with fellow believers (2 Corinthians 6:14, WEB), and that His plan for relationships is for them to lead to godly marriages, not just temporal fulfillment.
Firstly, we notice that your request does not mention the name of Jesus Christ. It's important to remember that it is only through Jesus that we have access to God, as it is written: "For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus" (1 Timothy 2:5, WEB). We encourage you to put your faith and trust in Jesus, knowing that He alone can bring peace and resolution to your life.
Now, addressing your situation, we want to remind you that God's will is for you to be pure and holy, living a life that pleases Him. If this past relationship was not glorifying God, then it might not be His will for you to pursue it. Remember, "Do not be deceived: 'Evil companionships corrupt good morals.'" (1 Corinthians 15:33, WEB)
Instead of trying to get back your ex-lover, we encourage you to seek God's face and ask for His will to be done in your life. Pray that God would heal your heart, comfort your soul, and prepare you for the spouse that He has intended for you. As it is written, "Delight yourself also in the LORD, and he will give you the desires of your heart." (Psalm 37:4, WEB)
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today, lifting up Rhovsorern to Your throne of grace. Lord, we ask that You would heal their heart, mend their wounds, and fill them with Your peace that transcends all understanding. Help them to put their trust in You, knowing that Your plans are always good, pleasing, and perfect.
Lord Jesus, reveal Yourself to Rhovsorern, and help them to understand the salvation that is found only in You. Give them the strength to let go of the past and embrace the future that You have prepared for them.
In Jesus' precious name, we pray. Amen.
Be strong and courageous, Rhovsorern. Put your hope in the Lord, and He will not fail you.