Prayers to deal with verbally abusive husband.

[Anonymous]

I am requesting scripture readings to help me to “ignore,” insults and inappropriate comments my husband consistently directs toward me daily!

 

[Articles]

We are truly sorry to hear about the circumstances you are facing, Anonymous, and we want you to know that God sees your pain and hears your cries. As you seek to deal with the verbal abuse from your husband, we encourage you to remember that God wants you to be treated with love and respect.

Firstly, we want to remind you of your value and worth in God's eyes. You are precious to Him, and He loves you deeply. No one should belittle or disrespect you, especially not your husband. As it says in Ephesians 5:25 WEB, "Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it." Marriage should be a picture of Christ's love for the church, and anything less than that is not aligning with God's will.

It's important to address the issue at hand. While we can pray for you to have the strength to endure and overlook insults, it is equally important to address the root cause. Verbal abuse is not something to be merely ignored; it should be addressed in a godly manner. We encourage you to seek wise counsel, possibly from a pastor or a trusted Christian mentor, to help you navigate this situation. It is possible that your husband may need to seek help as well, to address any underlying issues that may be causing his abusive behavior.

In dealing with the verbal abuse, we encourage you to find strength and comfort in God's Word. Here are some scriptures that can help you:

"But I tell you, don't resist him who is evil; but whoever strikes you on your right cheek, turn to him the other also." Matthew 5:39 WEB. This verse reminds us that we should not retaliate when wronged, but instead, respond with love and kindness.

"If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men." Romans 12:18 WEB. This verse encourages us to strive for peace in our relationships, as much as it depends on us.

"Therefore, as God's chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience." Colossians 3:12 WEB. This verse reminds us of the qualities we should exhibit, even in the face of adversity.

"Finally, be strong in the Lord, and in the strength of his might." Ephesians 6:10 WEB. This verse encourages us to find our strength in the Lord, knowing that He is our ultimate source of power and protection.

"For though we walk in the flesh, we don't wage war according to the flesh; for the weapons of our warfare are not of the flesh, but mighty before God to the throwing down of fortifications, throwing down imaginations and every high thing that is exalted against the knowledge of God, and bringing every thought into captivity to the obedience of Christ" 2 Corinthians 10:3-5 WEB. This verse reminds us that our battle is not against flesh and blood, but against spiritual forces of evil. We should use spiritual weapons, such as prayer and the Word of God, to fight our battles.

Let us pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You, lifting up our sister in Christ who is facing verbal abuse from her husband. Father, we pray for Your divine protection over her emotions and her heart. We ask that You would fill her with Your supernatural strength and peace, enabling her to respond with love and kindness in the face of adversity. Lord, we also pray for her husband, that You would convict his heart and bring him to a place of repentance and transformation. We ask that You would heal their marriage and make it a reflection of Your love for the church.

Lord, we also pray that our sister would not ignore the issue at hand, but would seek wise counsel and address the root cause in a godly manner. We ask that You would guide her every step of the way, giving her the wisdom and discernment she needs to navigate this situation.

Father, we thank You for Your unfailing love and faithfulness. We trust that You are working all things together for good, even in this difficult circumstance. We ask all these things in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.

Lastly, Anonymous, we want to encourage you to keep your eyes fixed on Jesus, the author, and perfecter of our faith. He is with you, and He will never leave you nor forsake you. Trust in Him, and He will see you through this storm.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here for you, sister. We've been where you are, feeling the sting of harsh words and the pain of disrespect. But remember, you are a daughter of the King, loved and cherished. You deserve to be treated with kindness and respect, just as God intended.

We understand that it's hard, but we encourage you to address this issue. It's not something to be ignored, but tackled with love and wisdom. Seek counsel from a trusted pastor or mentor. They can provide guidance and help you navigate this situation.

In the meantime, cling to God's promises. They are our lifeline in tough times. Here's a verse that has sustained us: "A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger" (Proverbs 15:1). Let's strive to respond with gentleness, even when it's hard.

Let's pray together: "Dear Lord, we lift up our sister to You. Comfort her, Lord. Fill her with Your strength and peace. Convict her husband's heart, Lord. Heal their marriage, make it a reflection of Your love. Give our sister wisdom, Lord, to navigate this situation. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

You're not alone, dear one. We're here, praying with you, every step of the way. Keep your eyes on Jesus. He's got you, and He won't let you go.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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