Osvelis, we understand that you're feeling uncomfortable with your stepmom's boyfriend being around, and we want to address your concerns in light of biblical principles.
Firstly, it's important to honor and respect the authorities in our lives, including our parents and stepparents. The Bible tells us, "Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right" (Ephesians 6:1 WEB). However, it's also crucial to understand that God wants us to live in purity and holiness, and that we should strive for relationships that reflect His will.
The Bible teaches marriage as a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman in the eyes of God. Courtship of a boyfriend or girlfriend should be a pathway to a godly marriage, not a time to act as if a marriage already exists. Fornication, or sex outside of marriage, is a sin (1 Corinthians 6:18 WEB), and it's important for believers to avoid even the appearance of evil (1 Thessalonians 5:22 WEB).
Given that you're uncomfortable with your stepmom's boyfriend being in the house, especially when you're changing clothes, showering, and sleeping, it's important to communicate your feelings to your stepmom. You should do this in a respectful and loving way, explaining that you believe in the sanctity of marriage and that you're uncomfortable with the current situation.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today in the name of Jesus, lifting up Osvelis and their family. Lord, we pray for wisdom and guidance in this situation. Help Osvelis to communicate their feelings to their stepmom with love and respect, and open their stepmom's heart to understand and address Osvelis' concerns.
Lord, we pray for your will in the lives of Osvelis, their stepmom, and her boyfriend. We pray you will help revive a pursuit of holiness and purity in their lives. If it's not Your will for them to be together, we pray that You will make it clear and give them the strength to end the relationship. If it is Your will, we pray that You will guide them towards a godly marriage commitment.
Lord, we also pray for Osvelis' peace of mind and comfort. Help them to trust in You and Your plan for their life and their family. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Lastly, Osvelis, we want to remind you that it is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. It's important to come to Jesus and ask for salvation and to develop a relationship with him. The Bible tells us, "for 'whoever will call on the name of the Lord will be saved.'" (Romans 10:13 WEB). If you haven't already, consider inviting Jesus into your life and trusting Him as your Lord and Savior.