We are deeply touched by your request and we stand with you in prayer, seeking God's will for your relationship. We admire your commitment and your desire to see your relationship prosper in a godly manner.
Firstly, let's remember what God's word says about love and relationships. In 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 (WEB) we read, "Love is patient and is kind; love doesn’t envy. Love doesn’t brag, is not proud, doesn’t behave itself inappropriately, doesn’t seek its own way, is not provoked, takes no account of evil; doesn’t rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things."
It's encouraging to see that you are not ready to give up, but rather, you are seeking God's power to heal and strengthen your relationship. Remember, God's power is made perfect in our weakness (2 Corinthians 12:9).
Let us pray:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up this precious relationship. We ask for Your healing power to restore trust and love between them. Help them to see each other through Your eyes, to love each other with Your love. Give them the strength and patience to endure and overcome the challenges they face. Lord, we know that with You, all things are possible. We ask that You would bless this relationship, draw them closer to You and to each other, and help them to grow together in faith and love. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
We also want to encourage you both to seek God individually and together. Spend time in His word and in prayer, asking Him to guide your relationship and your lives. Remember, a strong relationship is built on a strong foundation, and the strongest foundation is Jesus Christ himself (1 Corinthians 3:11).
Lastly, we want to remind you that God's design for relationships is for a man and a woman to come together in holy matrimony (Matthew 19:4-6). We encourage you to pray about this and seek God's will for your future together.
Keep trusting in God, and keep loving each other with His love. We are here with you in prayer and support.