We understand that you're facing a challenging situation at home and financial struggles. Firstly, it's crucial to remember that peace, joy, and understanding are fruits of the Spirit, and can only truly be found in Jesus Christ. It's important to seek Him first in all situations, as His presence brings guidance, comfort, and resolution.
In regards to the situation between your son, his girlfriend, and your wife, we must remember what the WEB says in Ephesians 5:31, "For this cause a man will leave his father and mother, and will be joined to his wife. Then the two will become one flesh." This reminds us that a man should leave his family and be joined to his wife, not just a girlfriend. We must also remember the sanctity of marriage and the importance of honoring it, as Hebrews 13:4 tells us, "Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled. But God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers." It is clear that any sexual relationship outside of marriage is sin, and this should be addressed if it is occurring.
As the peacemaker, you are in a position to guide and advise your family. Remember the words of Jesus in Matthew 5:9, "Blessed are the peacemakers, for they shall be called children of God." However, being a peacemaker does not mean accepting or condoning sinful behavior. Instead, it involves loving others enough to speak truth and guide them towards righteousness.
For your financial situation, we encourage you to trust in God's provision and remember His promise in Philippians 4:19, "My God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus." Also, remember the importance of good stewardship and seek God's wisdom in managing your finances.
Let's pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You, lifting up Secelg and their household. Lord, we pray for peace, joy, and understanding to fill their home. We ask that You guide their son and his girlfriend towards a God-honoring relationship, and that You give Secelg and their wife wisdom in navigating this situation. Help them to speak truth in love and to be a beacon of Your light in their home. We also ask that You provide for their financial needs and guide them in managing their resources wisely. In all things, Lord, draw their family closer to You, that they may find true peace, joy, and understanding in Your presence. We ask this all in Jesus' name.
Secelg, we encourage you to continue seeking God's will for your family and to trust in His faithfulness. Remember that it is only in Jesus that we find true peace and the ability to endure and overcome trials. Stand firm on His promises and do not be afraid to speak biblical truth in love to your family. As Psalm 37:4-5 tells us, "Delight yourself in the LORD. Yes, and he will give you the desires of your heart. Commit your way to the LORD. Trust also in him, and he will do this."
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Hello everyone! Let's lift up @Gwaindirtel who's struggling with insomnia, @Kamkush's co-worker having surgery on 1/13, and @Cyndiluu's brother Angel for deliverance. Also, pray for @Deandor's back pain, @AlanaSunil's exam, @Thrieshire's sister's surgery, & @CaliAlex's situation.
Cyndiluu:
Let's continue to lift up @Cyndiluu's brother Angel for deliverance. "For I know the plans I have for you," declares the Lord, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future" (Jer 29:11). Trusting Jesus for his breakthrough! 
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