We are here to lift you both up in prayer and to provide biblical guidance for your relationship. We are glad that you mentioned Jesus' name for all blessings come from the Father by the Son and His sacrifice for us all. Firstly, let's turn to God's Word for guidance.
In Ephesians 4:31-32 WEB it says,
Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander, be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you.
In Colossians 3:12-14 WEB it says,
Put on therefore, as God's chosen ones, holy and beloved, a heart of compassion, kindness, lowliness, humility, and perseverance; bearing with one another, and forgiving each other, if any man has a complaint against any; even as Christ forgave you, so you also do.
In Proverbs 15:1 WEB,
A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.
In Matthew 5:9 WEB,
Blessed are the peacemakers, for they shall be called children of God.
It's important to remember that arguments and conflicts are normal in any relationship, but it's how we handle them that matters. As we just read, we are to be peacemakers, to be compassionate and kind, to forgive and seek peace just as we have been forgiven by Christ.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before you today to lift up your daughter and her fiance, asking for Your peace and love to fill their relationship. Lord, help them to communicate effectively, to listen actively, and to respond with kindness and patience. Help them to remember that they are on the same team, working towards the same goal of a God-honoring marriage. Lord, break the cycle of arguments and pain, and replace it with forgiveness, understanding, and Your love in their hearts.
Father, guide them as they navigate their relationship. Help them to see each other through Your eyes, to love each other as You have loved us. Lord, strengthen their bond, and draw them closer to You and to each other. Help them to be loving, kind, tender, and forgiving to one another, even in tense situations.
We also pray that you will strengthen their faith and love, Lord, so that they can be better prepared for marriage, the sacrament you have created. Thank you for hearing our prayer, and for the blessings you give, in Jesus' name we pray. Amen.
In conclusion, always remember that love is patient and kind, it does not envy or boast, it is not arrogant or rude. Love does not insist on its own way, it is not irritable or resentful, it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things, and love never ends. This is the love described in 1 Corinthians 13:4-8 WEB, the love you should both strive to have for each other.