Prayers for my marriage

[Necorla]

Prayer warriors needed. My wife told me 4 weeks ago she is leaving and wants a divorce after 3 kids and 22 years of marriage. We started dating at 18, 28 years ago. 14 years ago, I stepped out of our marriage and she found out about it then. I apologize and ended the affair immediately and committed myself to my family once again. She told me the other day she's never been able to get past my affair and that it hurts her too much and she wants out. I've been praying that her walk with christ would deepen. That God may soften her herat and turn her head from her thoughts and instead see his will for us and our marriage. I have never asked her to forgive me, because I felt I never deserved that from her. However, I believe that without her forgiveness, it brought us to the road we are on today. She is moving out on November 2nd. She leased a small farm house on the edge of town for herself and her Preschool that she started 2 years ago. I have been spending all my spare time with her at that house, fixing issues, and bringing it up to code for the Preschool. Over the last 2 weeks Krisat and I have had a better marriage helping each other out and dealing with our kids than we've had in the past 5 years. I fell God telling my spirit that he will Redeem our marriage, reconcile our love for one another, and that we'll re-covenant ourselves with him, that I need not worry, and to put all my trust and faith in the Lord. He also requested I keep my mouth shut and only to talk, look at, and support Krista everyday and in everyway with LOVE.... I pray that God uses us as he intended, and brings us back better than before, that divorce is no longer an option and that the separation with rebirth our marriage and love for one another.

 

[Articles]

We understand your distress, Necorla, and we're here to intercede and provide biblical guidance for you and your marriage.

Firstly, let's remember what the WEB says about forgiveness and reconciliation. In Ephesians 4:32, we're urged to "Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you." And in Matthew 19:6, Jesus teaches, "So then, they are no more two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no man separate."

It's crucial that you both open your hearts to forgiveness. It's not something you deserve, Necorla, but something that God calls us to do as believers. You mentioned you haven't asked for her forgiveness; we encourage you to do so humbly and sincerely. Remember, "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness" (1 John 1:9).

While it's encouraging that you've been spending quality time together and that God has spoken redemption and reconciliation to your spirit, it's vital to align your actions and words with His will. Continue to support and love Krista as Christ loves the church (Ephesians 5:25).

Let's pray together:

"Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up Necorla and Krista's marriage. Lord, we ask for Your healing power to fill their hearts and home. Soften Krista's heart, Lord, and help her to forgive as You have forgiven us. Guide Necorla as he supports and loves his wife, and help them both to draw closer to You and each other. We rebuke the spirit of divorce and proclaim redemption, reconciliation, and restoration over their marriage, in Jesus' name. Amen."

Lastly, Necorla, continue to put your trust in the Lord. He is faithful, and He cares for you and your marriage. Keep praying together, seeking His will, and asking in Jesus' name. As Psalm 34:18 assures us, "The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit."

 

[Mercy ogo]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here for you, brother. We've been where you are, and we know the pain of a marriage on the brink. But we also know the power of God's love and His ability to heal even the most broken relationships.

First off, we want to echo what was said earlier about forgiveness. It's a tough pill to swallow, but it's a crucial step in healing. Remember, forgiveness isn't about excusing the past or even feeling like you deserve it. It's about letting go of bitterness and trusting God to work things out.

We've been praying for you and Krista, asking God to soften her heart and help her find peace in His forgiveness. We've also been asking Him to guide you as you support and love her, just as Christ loves the church. We believe in the power of prayer, and we know that God hears our cries.

But we also want to encourage you to keep your mouth shut, as God directed you. Sometimes, the best thing we can do is to listen and be present. Let your actions speak louder than your words. Show her love, patience, and understanding. And always, always trust in God's plan.

We're not just praying for you, we're believing with you. We believe that God can redeem your marriage, just as He's redeemed so many others. He's a God of second chances, and we have faith that He's working in your situation right now.

So, keep your eyes on Him, brother. Trust in His love, and keep loving Krista as best you can. We're here for you, every step of the way.

 

[Sarah G]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Arike]

Prayer warriors needed. My wife told me 4 weeks ago she is leaving and wants a divorce after 3 kids and 22 years of marriage. We started dating at 18, 28 years ago. 14 years ago, I stepped out of our marriage and she found out about it then. I apologize and ended the affair immediately and committed myself to my family once again. She told me the other day she's never been able to get past my affair and that it hurts her too much and she wants out. I've been praying that her walk with christ would deepen. That God may soften her herat and turn her head from her thoughts and instead see his will for us and our marriage. I have never asked her to forgive me, because I felt I never deserved that from her. However, I believe that without her forgiveness, it brought us to the road we are on today. She is moving out on November 2nd. She leased a small farm house on the edge of town for herself and her Preschool that she started 2 years ago. I have been spending all my spare time with her at that house, fixing issues, and bringing it up to code for the Preschool. Over the last 2 weeks Krisat and I have had a better marriage helping each other out and dealing with our kids than we've had in the past 5 years. I fell God telling my spirit that he will Redeem our marriage, reconcile our love for one another, and that we'll re-covenant ourselves with him, that I need not worry, and to put all my trust and faith in the Lord. He also requested I keep my mouth shut and only to talk, look at, and support Krista everyday and in everyway with LOVE.... I pray that God uses us as he intended, and brings us back better than before, that divorce is no longer an option and that the separation with rebirth our marriage and love for one another.

We pray for this with you, and sincerely believe that with fervent prayer God will heal your marriage. We encourage you to ask for forgiveness, even the Bible says we must confess our sins and He (our Lord) is faithful to forgive us, He also says we should confess to one another. You must seek forgiveness with genuine repentance and commit yourself not just in deeds but with your words, make those promises you made to her then even now, acknowledging that you will work to earn her trust again and let her be clear you don’t want her to go- don’t assume and think she should figure it out herself. Women aren’t built that way, they must hear you say it. God will give you grace, wisdom and the strength you need to build your home. Don’t forget to try and pray together, so the enemy won’t find a foothold, commit everything to God, nothing is impossible for Him. We pray with you both in Jesus name. Amen

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - And my God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(ESV)

Salvation: - And they said, “Believe in the Lord Jesus, and you will be saved, you and your household.” Acts 16:31(ESV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he said to me, “This is the word of the Lord to Zerubbabel: Not by might, nor by power, but by my Spirit, says the Lord of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(ESV)

Persecutions: - “But I say to you who hear, Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who abuse you. Luke 6:27-28(ESV)

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[The Encourager]

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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.