We are blessed to join with you in prayer and support as you seek God's will for your love life and future marriage. It is commendable that you desire a love like that described in Song of Songs and a marriage grounded in the Word of God. It is also wonderful that you are turning away from past sins such as pornography and masturbation. We encourage you to continue in this pursuit of purity and holiness.
Firstly, we acknowledge your request for prayer in the name of Jesus. It is only through His name that we have access to God the Father, as it is written in John 14:6 WEB: "Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me." And in Acts 4:12 WEB: "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved."
As you prepare for your future wife and marriage, we encourage you to become the man God has called you to be. Seek Him daily in prayer and study of the scriptures. Remain pure from sexual immorality, as advised in Romans 12:2, "Don't be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, so that you may prove what is the good, well-pleasing, and perfect will of God."
We rebuke any temptations that may come your way, remembering the words of 1 Corinthians 10:13 WEB: "No temptation has taken you except what is common to man. God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted above what you are able, but will with the temptation also make the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it." God should be your strength and stronghold.
Pray for your future wife, that God would prepare her for you as well. Pray that He would bless your future marriage and make it a testimony of His love and faithfulness. Remain in fellowship with other believers, seeking their support and encouragement.
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up this man of God who desires a love like that in Song of Songs and a marriage grounded in Your Word. Lord, we ask that You would mold him into the man You have called him to be. Help him to live in sexual purity and to know and show love like Jesus. Help him to desire more to please You than to please himself. Help him to ask for your supernatural resources. Prepare his future wife even now, and bless their future marriage. Surround them with a community of believers who will support and encourage them in their journey together. In Jesus' name we pray. Amen.
Be patient and trust in God's timing. He is faithful to fulfill His promises. Remain steadfast in your commitment to purity and prayer and in spending time in the scriptures.