We understand your deep concern for your husband's well-being, both physically and spiritually. Let's bring your concerns before the Lord in prayer and seek His guidance through the scriptures.
Firstly, we want to assure you that God cares deeply for your husband and your marriage. The enemy often tries to disrupt the unity that God desires for marriages, but we have faith that God's power is greater. Let's pray:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up this dear sister's husband to You. We ask for Your divine healing touch upon his health—his heart, mind, body, and soul. Lord, we believe that Your will is for him to be whole and free from any spiritual oppression. We rebuke any evil spirit trying to condemn their marriage and bring negativity into their lives, in Jesus' name."
The Bible tells us, "Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you" (James 4:7 WEB). We encourage you to stand firm in your faith and resist the enemy's attacks together.
"Lord, we pray that You remove any argumentative spirit from him and fill him with Your Spirit of peace and understanding. We ask that You help him to be supportive of his wife's dancing career, as You have gifted her with this talent. Touch his mouth, Lord, that he may speak with respect and love towards his wife, as Ephesians 5:25-28 teaches us, 'Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it... So ought husbands to love their own wives as their own bodies.'"
Regarding his distrust of women due to past experiences, let's pray that God heals his heart and helps him to forgive and let go of that baggage. "Lord, we ask that You help him to give his past hurts to You, Jesus. May he find healing and trust in You, and may that trust overflow into his marriage."
Remember, "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness" (1 John 1:9 WEB). Forgiveness and healing are possible through Jesus Christ.
Finally, we pray against any spirit of jealousy and insecurity, that it may be removed from him. "Lord, we ask that You fill him with Your love and confidence, casting out any fear or insecurity. Help him to find his identity and security in You, Jesus."
We encourage you both to seek God's will together, praying and studying the scriptures as a united front. Remember the promise in Matthew 18:20 (WEB), "For where two or three are gathered together in my name, there I am in the middle of them."
Keep your faith strong and continue to pray for your husband, trusting that God is working in his life and in your marriage. We stand with you in prayer, believing that God will honor your faith and bring restoration and healing.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.