Prayers for my brother

[Sister Ambria]

My brother acts so incompetent and petty and he’s 23 years old. He’s still living at home asking for video games instead of being moved out and living on his own. Last night I put an empty trash bag, unopened, for whoever puts their trash away next, and this dude sat up and started putting his trash in the garage just to avoid opening a new bag. That alone made me want to go off on him and that rage that I felt before is coming back. Please pray for God to move him out of this house or at least for him to experience God’s wrath so that he will do SOMETHING different. This is just ridiculous.

 

[Anonymous]

I am praying in the miraculous name of Jesus ..amen.

 

[Articles]

Let's bring your concerns about your brother before the Lord, seeking His will and intervention. Firstly however, we will address the issue of the wrath of God. We are not to imprecate, or will or wish the wrath of God on anyone, including your brother. However, you are frustrated with the current situation, and we understand your feelings of frustration. Whenever we feel this way anger and resentment can open the door for the devil. For this reason, the scriptures inform us the following.

Ephesians 4:26-27 WEB
"Be angry, and don't sin." Don't let the sun go down on your wrath, neither give place to the devil.

So we must not have unreasonable expectations for others. Usually there is a reason for irresponsibility in adults. Usually there is an unpleasant history behind the behavior. Often there are unseen forces at work. There are exceptions to this, but we must have compassion especially for our family. When you mention your brother is petty, we must consider that he has pride and shame, and think of the example of Jesus. Realize that the Lord has compassion on your brother also, and has His reasons as well. We must also consider the following about your brother's actions.

Matthew 18:2-4 WEB
Jesus called a little child to himself, and set him in the middle of them, and said, Truly I tell you, unless you turn, and become as little children, you will in no way enter into the Kingdom of Heaven.Whoever therefore humbles himself as this little child, the same is the greatest in the Kingdom of Heaven.

It is important not to allow the actions of others to evoke and control your emotions in the wrong way. Here it seems you can use a little understanding the actions of your brother as even childish. Be as a little child. To the extent that it is possible, let him be a little child, and do not be resentful and angry about it. Realize also, that the Lord is being disapproving of your brother. Is it also possible that your parents are being enablers for his actions? Consider consulting and discussing these issues with your parents. It is possible that he is not allowed to be independent. We should pray for you and your family regarding enabling and codependence. This is a cycle of sin and rebellion that must be broken and will require forgiveness, grace, and mercy for your family to receive healing. Rebellion is as the sin of witchcraft, and bitterness is a going rotten of the bones. Let us pray for you and your brother to this end.

1 Samuel 15:23
For rebellion is as the sin of witchcraft, and stubbornness is as idolatry and teraphim. Because you have rejected Yahweh's word, he has also rejected you from being king.

Hebrews 12:14-15 WEB
Follow after peace with all men, and the sanctification without which no man will see the Lord, looking carefully lest there be any man who falls short of the grace of God; lest any root of bitterness springing up trouble you, and many be defiled by it.

We notice that you did not mention the name of Jesus Christ, Jesus, Christ, or an abbreviation such as IJN (In Jesus Name) so we must discuss this issue in your request. It is only by the name of Jesus that we can approach God the father and that Jesus is the mediator between God and men. Jesus is the son of God and was slain on the cross for our sins. We must believe on the Lord Jesus Christ to achieve salvation and receive the gift of eternal life.

John 3:16 WEB
For God so loved the world, that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish, but have eternal life.

Acts 4:10-12 WEB
be it known to you all, and to all the people of Israel, that in the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth, whom you crucified, whom God raised from the dead, in him does this man stand here before you whole. He is 'the stone which was regarded as worthless by you, the builders, which has become the head of the corner.' There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"

Let's also remember both for your brother and ourselves that Jesus came to save sinners and has compassion and patience that endures forever. Let us pray and be compassionate and forgiving to others.

Matthew 9:11-13 WEB
When the Pharisees saw it, they said to his disciples, Why does your Teacher eat with tax collectors and sinners? When Jesus heard it, he said to them, Those who are healthy have no need for a physician, but those who are sick do.But you go and learn what this means: 'I desire mercy, and not sacrifice,' for I came not to call the righteous, but sinners to repentance.

Father, we lift up Sister Ambria and her brother before You, asking for Your divine intervention. Help him to mature and take responsibility for his life, and if it is Your will. Lord, help Sister Ambria to manage her frustrations and anger, granting her patience, compassion and peace. Help the family to be aware of codependence. Fulfill Your promises to guide and teach us all so that we may live a life that glorifies You and also call on Your mercy that we all have. We trust in Your perfect plan for their lives and will. Jesus suffers the little children, so Lord we understand that You will continue suffering with us all until the end of the age. We ask this in Jesus' name, do all this to the benefit and glory of Jesus Christ. Amen.

 

[EnricoLange]

Lord Jesus please help them in accordance with your perfect will Father. Thank you.

 

[hostadmin]

We're right there with you, sister. It's tough seeing someone we love acting in ways that aren't beneficial for them. Let's remember that our brother is still a child at heart, and Jesus calls us to be like little children - humble, dependent, and trusting. Let's pray for God to move in his heart, to give him a desire to grow up and take responsibility for his life. And for us, let's ask for patience, understanding, and love, just as Christ loves us. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

 

[Wernad]

Heavenly Father,
We lift up this family to You, acknowledging the challenges they are facing in their relationships. Lord, You see the frustration and the longing for change in this home. We ask for Your divine intervention and wisdom to bring transformation and peace. Your Word reminds us: “Make every effort to live in peace with everyone and to be holy; without holiness no one will see the Lord” (Hebrews 12:14). Help this family navigate their frustrations with love and grace.


Father, we pray specifically for this brother. At 23 years old, he is at a pivotal time in life, and we ask that You guide him toward responsibility, growth, and independence. Open his heart and mind to Your wisdom and purpose for his life. Let him seek to become the man You have called him to be. Your Word says: “When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put the ways of childhood behind me” (1 Corinthians 13:11). Lead him to embrace maturity and a spirit of accountability.


Lord, we also ask for patience and understanding for the person lifting this prayer. Let them be slow to anger and rich in kindness, even when frustration mounts. Your Word reminds us: “A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger” (Proverbs 15:1). Help them to express their feelings in a way that builds their relationship and invites constructive change.


Father, if there is a deeper struggle or insecurity holding this brother back, reveal it and bring healing. Your Word declares: “The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit” (Psalm 34:18). Work in his heart to instill motivation, self-worth, and a desire to grow.


Finally, Lord, we ask that Your peace and harmony fill this household. Help them to work together in unity and mutual respect. Let this family be a reflection of Your love and grace, even in the face of challenges. Your Word assures us: “Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love” (Ephesians 4:2).


We thank You for the work You are already doing in this family and for the transformation You will bring. In Jesus’ name, we pray, Amen.

 

[usha rani]

Praying for this in Jesus Name.

 

[Stitcher]

I have prayed for this in the precious name of Jesus. Amen

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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