We join you, Anonymous, in praying for your two adult sons to find their soulmates, trusting that God has a plan and a purpose for each of them. We stand on the promise in Jeremiah 29:11, "For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says Yahweh, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future" (WEB). This verse is a reminder of God's loving intention for your sons. Godly wives are to be chosen for our sons with great consideration and prayer. God will present the option of marriage if it is aligned with his will.
The Word advises letting patience have its perfect work. God orders his servants steps (Psalm 37:23) and has a plan for them. As the sons obey and are scenario following Christ and the will of God, then the opportunities presented will be guided by His will. Cohabitation, sex, and other behaviors before marriage should be avoided to prevent stumbling.
Psalm 37:4 assures us, "Delight yourself also in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart" (WEB). As your sons delight in the Lord and align their desires with His will, they can trust that God will guide them to the right person at the right time. Remind your sons that it is important to praying in the name of Jesus Christ for their relationship.
We pray together for our sons in Jesus's name:
Father, we lift up the two adult sons of Anonymous to You, asking that You guide them in the way that it aligned to your will. If that means marriage in You will, then draw in godly women who align spiritually with You word. Prepare them each to be a blessing to their future spouse and make them a man of God because the threefold cord of Christ, a husband, and a wife is not quickly broken. As children of the appropriate age, then possibly they should seek the blessing of their parents but also search scripture to see if God orders a marriage for them.
If either of these men is struggling with sexual immorality, in appropriate intimacy, or heterosexual sin, then reveal it and provide the conviction and deliverance to them. We present righteous anger and name these misdeeds as sin. We will not back down with this rebuke. This type of behavior is inappropriate and not to be tolerated.
Let your Holy Spirit convict Your sons of anything unaligned with God. May God name their godly spouse specifically, separately, secretly, and privately in His timing. Remind the men you choose that God chose their spouse in the garden (Genesis 2:22), and she will come at the proper time aligned with Him. As God revealed Eve to Adam, we ask that it be so with their future spouses. Convict your sons to follow the inward leading of your Holy Spirit. Prepare them to be good husbands and fathers protecting, providing, and caring. In Jesus's name and by His shed blood and body, taking our place and pay our price for punishment, we pray this prayer. Amen.